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tugboaboat5393

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Re: my opinion on sending money to a chica.....
« Reply #30 on: September 13, 2019, 10:30:49 PM »
I treat the long-distance chicas in Sosua the same way I treat long-distance jump offs in the states -- I got's to get something for my cash -- always. Phone sex, photos, Facetime -- something to tide me over until we meet again and I collect on free sessions that I have already donated for.

As for Sosua, the biggest hustle for chicas is getting money on the regular from multiple guys are only going to be in town once or twice a year.
Key words once or twice a year,,, Now if your going 5 -10 times a year  and you have a great repeat why not send something,, now this is for good trusted repeats only, not for the rats,,,  Also  no big deal if she has a side piece,,, with no bullshit or drama,,    Kind of like an investment,,

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Re: my opinion on sending money to a chica.....
« Reply #31 on: September 13, 2019, 10:39:02 PM »
Non/Semi? Pro...in the game from time to time they all fuck for money. Don't be fooled...just roll with it.
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Re: my opinion on sending money to a chica.....
« Reply #32 on: September 13, 2019, 10:42:55 PM »
Thx guys, y'all really helped my friend take the blinders off his eyes. Now he doesn't know how to end it or keep it to "see you when I see you" I told him just stop responding and she'll get the hint.

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Re: my opinion on sending money to a chica.....
« Reply #33 on: September 13, 2019, 10:48:51 PM »
Non/Semi? Pro...in the game from time to time they all fuck for money. Don't be fooled...just roll with it.

I agree either pre - pay or direct pay.... but with a nice repeat that you have a friendship/ great repore with......

Is it better to simply pay her per session upon meeting or form a mini relationship where it’s more of a GFE experience , hanging out , not only about fucking when you in town......

that’s the part that gets me confused ....

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Re: my opinion on sending money to a chica.....
« Reply #34 on: September 13, 2019, 10:51:41 PM »
Fuck all that noise! Was I not clear?!? Only pay/give her money in exchange for shit that she did for you. Live Video phone sex or personalized masturbation video after she makes it and sends it to you. It has nothing to do with anything or anyone else that involves her mouth, pussy & asshole. If she does this for you, she gets some money...2000pesos.  If you want her to fuck another chica or some monger on hidden camera she can get paid for that. Otherwise,  no money needs to be considered for her.
It's up to the individual to decide if live video sex is "getting" something worth sending money all the way to the DR for.  Imagine?  Guys thirsty at home for Sosua can send WU for video sex between visits.   So whats the guy doing?   Sitting at his computer chair with towels and Astroglide?   

Imo,  a monger should not be sending money for a chick doing live sex video.   A guy should be able to see video sex for free.  If the chick send me a video of her cooking her favorite meal or changing her kids diaper does that qualify for sending WU? 
The mongering I learned coming along, is you pay for services when they are rendered.   The idea is not to swell these muggs head demonstrating some chick she is worth more than you are.   

"Check it out girl.  I dont even have to have sex with this guy.   All I got to do is do some video sex, and he sends me some money".      "Meanwhile I just fucked this other guy over here silly for 1500 pesos, and the guy I sent the video to paid me 2000 pesos"    Smells like an imbalance to me. 

For some reason paying for video sex and you aint even there, doesnt sound like something most secure mongers do.   Most men I know would just tell the chick,  I'll see you when I get there.     If he has to release every now and then,  he'll get it done somehow.    BTW,  we know dudes get tired of fucking the same girl after awhile.   Does a guy get tired of the seeing the same chick sending him videos and expecting to be paid?    I always thought, a chick performing video sex ect was a chicas way of giving a guy an incentive to see her when he gets there?   Not her actually getting paid for it? 

But now we got chicas earning 1500,2000 pesos and more for video sex?   
« Last Edit: September 13, 2019, 11:42:28 PM by murano2010 »

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Re: my opinion on sending money to a chica.....
« Reply #35 on: September 13, 2019, 10:54:56 PM »
For me, I would pay when I'm down there because there is always the risk she could easily take the prepay and ghost. Trust she will see you when you get there if you wait. And if not, there is another chica to take her place.

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Re: my opinion on sending money to a chica.....
« Reply #36 on: September 13, 2019, 10:57:59 PM »
Second the strangest shit be happening idk if it’s only me ......

Vibe with a chica all night... eat, party , drink, have a good casual time , absolutely no mention of sex the whole night, she comes back to the room at the end of the night to casually hang out , you make a tiny move and she fucks you silly for and hour or 2 .... then ask for some money after sex....

I’m like what !! Where the hell where did that come from? Is every chick on that island selling sex I truely wonder... directly or indirectly!
« Last Edit: September 13, 2019, 11:01:51 PM by Big_Pimpin22 »

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Re: my opinion on sending money to a chica.....
« Reply #37 on: September 13, 2019, 11:03:18 PM »
Non/Semi? Pro...in the game from time to time they all fuck for money. Don't be fooled...just roll with it.

I agree either pre - pay or direct pay.... but with a nice repeat that you have a friendship/ great repore with......

Is it better to simply pay her per session upon meeting or form a mini relationship where it’s more of a GFE experience , hanging out , not only about fucking when you in town......

that’s the part that gets me confused ....
Depending on the individual, prepaying or direct pay is your call.   The question is,  will you get what you paid for when you get there?   Often enough,  people have short time memory.  And women are like cats.   They dont always associate what you did in the past with as them owing you a future benefit.   And that being the case, it's simple.   It's best to pay for service when they are rendered.   

If you feel your GFE, rapport, or relationship will be compromised or disappear, because you refused to send money , that should tell you that it was never real to begin with.  The facade was all conditional.    Paying for services when rendered helps keep the transaction fresh and fair.     It doesnt have to be money.   It could be gifts or something else.    But the closer the gift is given to when you are there enjoying what you paid for, the better.   IMHO

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Re: my opinion on sending money to a chica.....
« Reply #38 on: September 13, 2019, 11:06:24 PM »
Non/Semi? Pro...in the game from time to time they all fuck for money. Don't be fooled...just roll with it.

I agree either pre - pay or direct pay.... but with a nice repeat that you have a friendship/ great repore with......

Is it better to simply pay her per session upon meeting or form a mini relationship where it’s more of a GFE experience , hanging out , not only about fucking when you in town......

that’s the part that gets me confused ....
Depending on the individual, prepaying or direct pay is your call.   The question is,  will you get what you paid for when you get there?   Often enough,  people have short time memory.  And women are like cats.   They dont always associate what you did in the past with as them owing you a future benefit.   And that being the case, it's simple.   It's best to pay for service when they are rendered.   

If you feel your GFE, rapport, or relationship will be compromised or disappear, because you refused to send money , that should tell you that it was never real to begin with.  The facade was all conditional.    Paying for services when rendered helps keep the transaction fresh and fair.     It doesnt have to be money.   It could be gifts or something else.    But the closer the gift is given to when you are there enjoying what you paid for, the better.   IMHO

Hell yeah major major facts.... when I’m not in DR I’m keeping these WhatsApp conversations to a minimum, to many conversations and the needy requests start pouring in... when I’m there I’ll see you chicas first hand

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Re: my opinion on sending money to a chica.....
« Reply #39 on: September 13, 2019, 11:11:35 PM »
Second the strangest shit be happening idk if it’s only me ......

Vibe with a chica all night... eat, party , drink, have a good casual time , absolutely no mention of sex the whole night, she comes back to the room at the end of the night to casually hang out , you make a tiny move and she fucks you silly for and hour or 2 .... then ask for some money after sex....

I’m like what !! Where the hell where did that come from? Is every chick on that island selling sex I truely wonder... directly or indirectly!
Women are wired for deception.   Thats number one.  Number two, womens pussies have hidden meters on them.   The moment you express liking them ( not even fucking them ) the compensation meter is activated.   "Oh you like me, huh?"   "Thats going to cost ya"    Girls are raised thinking like that,  the moment they realize the value we place on being with them.

Another thing.   Locals thrive and win off what us foreigners fail to negotiate or discuss up front.     Get into a taxi or jump on a moto without asking the price.   You'll see what I mean.   It's the same with women.    It's to the point,  it seems men have more sensitivity and feelings than women do ( in the DR especially ).      Both are vibing, but only one expects to get paid after the encounter.   Interesting.   

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Re: my opinion on sending money to a chica.....
« Reply #40 on: September 13, 2019, 11:15:28 PM »
And if she don't like it... Well there's plenty on the island who would gladly take her place. And if not DR, there's Columbia, Brazil, Thailand, Panama, TnT, so on and so on. And if not those places, there's still the homefront. Abundance mindset trumps all.

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Re: my opinion on sending money to a chica.....
« Reply #41 on: September 13, 2019, 11:25:21 PM »
Soo..  torn here and confused.  I met a girl who was working for a restaurant.  Didnt meet her on the st.  Got her # and met for dinner later. Wnded up spending the night..  never asked for a $. However i asked how much nails &hair were local and offered a small gift for hair and nails.  We really got along well, and have been speaking a few weeks since ive been hime. Shes never asked.for anything except for me to visit when i can... my nature tells me to be concerned shes a chica.. but i have no reason to thi k that.  When she came to my hotel, she refused to provide her ID to security, just showed them and said shes not a working girl. I asked my resources on the ground in sosua and 1 chica said she looks like a chica but she doesnt know for sure...   what the fuck do i do.  I dont wanna be direct and ruin the vibe.
Here's where treating a female like a woman comes into play.   The onus isnt on you to reveal who she is to you.   The onus is on her to reveal to you who she is.   Youve been going by her actions, stick to that.    If and when she shows other motivations that come to the surface, you can deal with that accordingly.   

If she acts like she's not a puta, then treat her like she's not a puta.    Eventually if she wants something she is going to bring it up.   You dont need to.   And you dont need to feel like you arent being thoughtful by not bringing up or offering her money without her asking for it.   Like I said.   She's not a child.   Make her speak up and tell you what she wants.    As long as you are paying for everything you and her do together,  she is being compensated.    If she comes at you eventually with money requests,  she's just one thats smooth about her shit.    Just be prepared to offer what you think is fair and commensurate with the services she provided.    No need to over compensate.   

Just wanted to add.   The word chica usually means girl.   The word chica does not necessarily mean a puta or a prostitute.   Us mongers just use chica in referring to girls and women because it's common in the DR.   Another thing.   When chicas claim they arent putas, they typically mean they are not out in the street specifically picking up many men to sleep with them for money.    But dealing with a guy where money is not discussed,  a woman may still want and need your money, but doesnt associate getting it from us as being a prostitute.   Thats just a man taking care of "his woman".     In this case, his pretend GF.     
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Re: my opinion on sending money to a chica.....
« Reply #42 on: September 14, 2019, 12:00:08 AM »
What about chicas that you started out with as putas but are now in school, in Santo Domingo away from Sosua, looking for a better life with you AND want you to meet the family? Should they get money then pr cut them loose?

AND to add the chica showed proof she is in school and in Santo Domingo  via pics. My friend is actually going through this situation but I don't know how to advise him.
She is not his GF, she is just his turn.   Especially since he does not live in the DR.   Never ever let a chica control you by being concerned about losing her to not financially supporting her from abroad.    Shes not your girl shes just your turn when you get there.    If she has other guys helping her,  then be happy.   Let them help her, and he wait his turn.   

You dont lose the girl, the girl loses you.   Tell him to test the waters.   Stop or dont send her money.   Do it as respectfully as possible.   If she slows down the contact or bounces, then you know what you got.    Dont be afraid to lose what you never really had.    Dont fall for those emotions telling you that you are a scumbag because you didnt send money to a chica that fucked you good.   Swallowed your liquid,  or let you hit it raw.      Yeah, I know.    We dont want to lose those special girls that gave excellent service.     

So the guy has to make a decision.    Do I care more about my self respect or do I care more about potentially losing some good juice?      Do I have an abundance mindset that there are more fish in the sea,   or do I look at that particular woman as a rare commodity?     In the long run a guy has to figure out what he values more.     Keep this in mind though.    No matter who the chick is.   Even if it's a regular.   The connection is going to end eventually.    It's only a seasonal thing.     If the chick is all that,  somebody else is going to find value in her too, and you WILL be outbid.     Especially if he is there and you arent.

Pay for services/juice when it is rendered.     Services given is compensation earned.   You dont get paid just because you are a good person, schooling or working and you are a female.    Thats female worship.   
« Last Edit: September 14, 2019, 12:06:42 AM by murano2010 »

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Re: my opinion on sending money to a chica.....
« Reply #43 on: September 14, 2019, 12:24:29 AM »
Here's something to ponder.     I live in Sosua and keep at least 4 to 5 regulars.   When I leave Sosua,  to go to the states or vacation elsewhere,  I dont keep regular contact with those regulars.   When I get back to Sosua we always resume where we left off.    Why is it,  I can do that but guys that live in the states or wherever feel the need to stay in touch with those women?   

Is it because were afraid that out of sight out of mind?   Or that we'll lose contact when they change their number?    The reason why my regulars dont ask me for money or gifts is because I dont give them the opportunity.  I have a separate phone and number.    I keep that off when I leave the DR.     When I get back to Sosua I turn it on,  and thats when they know Im back.   Even when I am in sosua,  I always made it a habit not to call or text my regulars or at least the bare minimum.    I usually let them contact me, when they are ready to earn some money.  When Super Bowl week comes,  thats when I end up taking a break,  because my regulars suddenly disappear and are unavailable.    Do I care?  Hell No.   Them guys are helping me.   By the time they get back to our rotation,   my maintenance payments will be very welcome.     

Dont chase,  let them chase you.   You are the prize, not them.   

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Re: my opinion on sending money to a chica.....
« Reply #44 on: September 14, 2019, 12:49:01 AM »
Damn that's solid advice!

 


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