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Re: my opinion on sending money to a chica.....
« Reply #255 on: October 11, 2019, 05:17:02 AM »
Absolutely, guys when talking to guys are always blaming women for their failures in bed. They’d never present the same complaints to women because they know they would have to provide support for their assertions. In regard to a starfish situation guys be like, “I know the dimes can’t fuck”. While women be like, “why do you think she wasn’t motivated to fuck you”.


If people enjoy there work they typically put more time and effort into it. Chicas are no different. Dudes talk about all the starfish action. 90% of the time that means it's the dudes fault. Hygiene, attitude etc.
Granted,  there are many guys who blame women for their failures in bed.   Some guys complaints may be legit.    But whose sorting?   Guys generally talk with other guys because supposedly we can relate to each other.  Often share the same experiences.  And in some cases do so without judgement.    Why would a guy present his complaints to a hooker?   Especially if she may be the source of his failure?   

Another matrix driven problem,  is the fact that enough men dont support other men when they complain or address something regarding a failure in bed connected to a woman.    It's commonly looked at as whining and weak.  Or deflecting from ones shortcomings.      Men require emotional and psychological stimulation to perform just like women need it.    Here in this forum were quick to say a woman wasnt motivated to have sex, because of the mans hygiene, attitude, acting cheap etc,   but rarely do you hear men standing up for other men that may have lost their motivation to fuck a woman for the same reasons ( and more ).   

The mere fact that a man complains,  his concerns can be easily dismissed without giving it any consideration.   He's a man complaining,  of course he's lying, weak, or both.     The woman however, wasnt motivated to fuck him.   Why?   Oh he was fat, sloppy, nasty.   You name it, and there's plenty of reason.     The women dont even have to offer a reason.   Men will assume a reason just to throw other men under the bus.   They dont even have to know the dude or the circumstances.     

The mans concerns?   Fuck that!   He's a man he has no legit concerns and no feelings or emotions.   He's supposed to get hard because the woman is there.    Get hard, fuck her and pay her.    Nothing a woman says or does can lead to a mans failure in bed.   Nothing.     A woman is blameless.   No need to look for flaws.   When it comes to guys though,  we can find plenty.   Or assume without evidence.     

Like I said before,  the matrix has done a serious number on males.     What tool do we use to determine legit concerns of men from bogus concerns?   Or it doesnt matter?   
 
« Last Edit: October 11, 2019, 05:48:57 AM by murano2010 »

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Re: my opinion on sending money to a chica.....
« Reply #256 on: October 11, 2019, 07:44:53 AM »
Absolutely, guys when talking to guys are always blaming women for their failures in bed. They’d never present the same complaints to women because they know they would have to provide support for their assertions. In regard to a starfish situation guys be like, “I know the dimes can’t fuck”. While women be like, “why do you think she wasn’t motivated to fuck you”.


If people enjoy there work they typically put more time and effort into it. Chicas are no different. Dudes talk about all the starfish action. 90% of the time that means it's the dudes fault. Hygiene, attitude etc.
Granted,  there are many guys who blame women for their failures in bed.   Some guys complaints may be legit.    But whose sorting?   Guys generally talk with other guys because supposedly we can relate to each other.  Often share the same experiences.  And in some cases do so without judgement.    Why would a guy present his complaints to a hooker?   Especially if she may be the source of his failure?   

Another matrix driven problem,  is the fact that enough men dont support other men when they complain or address something regarding a failure in bed connected to a woman.    It's commonly looked at as whining and weak.  Or deflecting from ones shortcomings.      Men require emotional and psychological stimulation to perform just like women need it.    Here in this forum were quick to say a woman wasnt motivated to have sex, because of the mans hygiene, attitude, acting cheap etc,   but rarely do you hear men standing up for other men that may have lost their motivation to fuck a woman for the same reasons ( and more ).   

The mere fact that a man complains,  his concerns can be easily dismissed without giving it any consideration.   He's a man complaining,  of course he's lying, weak, or both.     The woman however, wasnt motivated to fuck him.   Why?   Oh he was fat, sloppy, nasty.   You name it, and there's plenty of reason.     The women dont even have to offer a reason.   Men will assume a reason just to throw other men under the bus.   They dont even have to know the dude or the circumstances.     

The mans concerns?   Fuck that!   He's a man he has no legit concerns and no feelings or emotions.   He's supposed to get hard because the woman is there.    Get hard, fuck her and pay her.    Nothing a woman says or does can lead to a mans failure in bed.   Nothing.     A woman is blameless.   No need to look for flaws.   When it comes to guys though,  we can find plenty.   Or assume without evidence.     

Like I said before,  the matrix has done a serious number on males.     What tool do we use to determine legit concerns of men from bogus concerns?   Or it doesnt matter?
 

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Re: my opinion on sending money to a chica.....
« Reply #257 on: October 11, 2019, 08:10:02 AM »
No Shit about the American Matrix,,Good points  ,,Sirs your in sosua to sport smash and move onto the next ,mabey have a TLN...These chicas are SEX WORKERS you pay them for SERVICES RENDERED , Sure they will give you the basics. Takes 2 to tango, some chica are into you some not so much,, VETTING CHICAS will reduce starfitch or bum chicas sessions..Now if you venture out of the SU,, to other parts of the dr you will have better luck if you want a semi pro or civillian, for good repeat service,, albiet you may have to send a littel some thing,  to them, not a lot,
Those are the ones you cultivate,,,,It does take time and more than 2 visits a year to the dr ! to maintain an off the chain great chica,thats treats you like a king.
The topic of saving, keeping them for  your self, marring a SU hoe. taken them back to the states is like beating a dead horse,,   Sirs Sosuas great for what we do,MONGERING !,  Now if you want more, or a differnt scene, venture out!;
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Re: my opinion on sending money to a chica.....
« Reply #258 on: October 11, 2019, 09:47:18 AM »
I discovered Sosua only 6 years ago, since then I sent 2 chicas $50 via WU.. ONLY twice. I was at BB for 6 days, wifed up a chica for my last two days but on last last day before I checked out to head to the Airport at 6AM.. I only gave her 2K pesos bc I ran out of change, out of cash, and didnt have time to hit the ATM.. It was a TLN and I owed her another 1K. Believe it or not she was cool with it bc we enjoyed each other's company for 2 full days and she made a lot of $, plus she knew I'd send her a bit more haha. The other one was a semi pro I fucked in Sosua, was free.. yeah right then she started begging me to send her $ and to become her novio. Since I popped that cherry quite a few times the least I could do was send her $50 and then shut it down.

Sending WU isnt the problem, it's how you do it. Don't become a typical WU novio. When you're not there and sending money on a Monthly basis bc you have a fantasy in your head that she's gonna be loyal, or worse you rent a place for her and now paying her bills. It can be done but it's rare, and if you do this with puta you met in sosua or you paid then you're an IDIOT. Don't fucking do it! Even if you manage to visit every Month for a week, during the other 3 weeks you're not there she's likely with someone else. You CANNOT turn a hoe into a housewife, at home or abroad! Dominicans party and drink a lot, they go out a lot. If you find one that's a true working class chica with kids, very busy, goes to church, a non-puta, and lives with good family perhaps it may work.

If you're only sending let's say $100 to $200 a month($1200-$2400 yearly), and you happen to visit even every 1-2 Months and tapping that ass for the whole time you're there, then it makes sense and in fact you're definitely spending less than if you were with other chicas during those weeks. 1 trip only in Sosua is normally $1200-$2400, my last 20 day trip was nearly $4000. Would only work if you're the type who's ok with 1 chica, better be a dime hopefully, and she basically would become a "Pre-Paid" hooker so to speak. Plus when you're down there no need for a hotel - in that alone you'd save lots of $. That's the main logic on why some men do this, especially since not everyone care about fucking 100 chicas a year. Some dudes are genuinely seeking better companionships than what we have going on back home, so why not?



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Re: my opinion on sending money to a chica.....
« Reply #259 on: October 12, 2019, 07:01:37 AM »
No Shit about the American Matrix,,Good points  ,,Sirs your in sosua to sport smash and move onto the next ,mabey have a TLN...These chicas are SEX WORKERS you pay them for SERVICES RENDERED , Sure they will give you the basics. Takes 2 to tango, some chica are into you some not so much,, VETTING CHICAS will reduce starfitch or bum chicas sessions..
I appreciate the cautions that you provided here.   However in spite of that,  there is only so much vetting of a chica that you can do to reduce BS. 

Examples

Vetting a chica with a dry pussy ( especially if she has become numb in her interactions with men ).   Vetting a chica that cant take dick.  Vetting a chica who seems convincing that she is ready to put in work, but ends up being a starfish. ( she gave you the right vibe, what she does in the bedroom is another story ).  Vetting a chica whose idea of sucking a dick is licking it, like it's a marble.   Vetting a chica for having a stink pussy?   Vetting a chica that breaks out with rules in the bed of what you can and cannot do, after you "vetted" her on what you wanted.     Vetting a chica who decides to leave early,  inspite of being warned?    Vetting a chica for ugly stretch marks, or some unsightly wounds that can make a man lose an erection?  Vetting a chica on her period or her having an STD.   

My overall point.   Vetting a chica makes a lot of sense.   Picking up a bad vibe could help a dude decide on moving forward or aborting.    But many a chica has shown a great attitude, and acted like she was into the dude only for that to change once secure in the mans spot.   

So when it comes to the aforementioned things that we all have seen or heard,  you may not be able to avoid those things because the objective of the chica is to get hired.   Not trying to give full disclosure because some dude took the time to vet her beforehand.        In fact we wouldnt need or have these stay away from this chica threads if these things were avoidable after you already hired the chick.   When we hire a chick to fuck,  we are paying for her time,  not necessarily for the performance we think we are paying for.     

And lets face it.   This forum shows you just how thirsty a lot of muggs are even with warnings on a chica.   Instead of a chica potentially losing business, instead she's probably going to get more business from thirsty muggs who want to hit it.    From that you kinda can guess that vetting a chica or boycotting her hustle aint a priority.   
   
We all know there are risks and no guarantees.   It's not about that.   Whats disturbing is the mentality of men that DONT support men.   Just like it is in the states.   Courts are full of examples of men dogging out men for alimony,CS, half of what the man has, have him kicked out of his own house.   

And when those men travel abroad they bring that same fucked up mindset because their allegiance is towards the support of females/women,  NOT MEN.   Any man speaking truth concerning behavior that applies to women is deemed to be hating women.   Sometimes I wish there was a real life DROP SQUAD crew that would put an end to female worship, and titty sucking.   


   
« Last Edit: October 12, 2019, 07:14:15 AM by murano2010 »

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Re: my opinion on sending money to a chica.....
« Reply #260 on: October 12, 2019, 10:46:31 AM »
So what Murano2010 is proposing, just like Superman, Batman and others have done in the past, the same here mongers should form a Sosua Mongerers Justice Leaque, with a headquarters, a human resource dept, basically the whole shebang (pun intended or no intended?-- who cares!!! )!

So if the putering chicas in Sosua are not giving queen like treatment to their pesos paying Kings---you know---those Starfished prim donnas galore acting putas---hurting the SMJL members’ feelings---making them feel more insecure, undesirable, unsexable,  unattractive, than they already feel living in the “matrix”.

 Murano is saying and proposing to gather around fellow mongers--- to form a leaque, some sort of an Alliance, or maybe just unionize’, to combat these Sosua Starfishes Coalition Leaque (SSCL), and from time to time have a group therapy sessions with one another to discuss the members collective pain and hurtfulness that they have received from the evil putas--- SSCL!

Mirano2010 and MgtowSosua’s slogan: “Mongering equal rights for all, justice from starfish putas for all! Long Live Sosua!!!” 

« Last Edit: October 12, 2019, 10:48:41 AM by SentryKnight »

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Re: my opinion on sending money to a chica.....
« Reply #261 on: October 12, 2019, 11:22:51 AM »
I discovered Sosua only 6 years ago, since then I sent 2 chicas $50 via WU.. ONLY twice. I was at BB for 6 days, wifed up a chica for my last two days but on last last day before I checked out to head to the Airport at 6AM.. I only gave her 2K pesos bc I ran out of change, out of cash, and didnt have time to hit the ATM.. It was a TLN and I owed her another 1K. Believe it or not she was cool with it bc we enjoyed each other's company for 2 full days and she made a lot of $, plus she knew I'd send her a bit more haha. The other one was a semi pro I fucked in Sosua, was free.. yeah right then she started begging me to send her $ and to become her novio. Since I popped that cherry quite a few times the least I could do was send her $50 and then shut it down.

Sending WU isnt the problem, it's how you do it. Don't become a typical WU novio. When you're not there and sending money on a Monthly basis bc you have a fantasy in your head that she's gonna be loyal, or worse you rent a place for her and now paying her bills. It can be done but it's rare, and if you do this with puta you met in sosua or you paid then you're an IDIOT. Don't fucking do it! Even if you manage to visit every Month for a week, during the other 3 weeks you're not there she's likely with someone else. You CANNOT turn a hoe into a housewife, at home or abroad! Dominicans party and drink a lot, they go out a lot. If you find one that's a true working class chica with kids, very busy, goes to church, a non-puta, and lives with good family perhaps it may work.

If you're only sending let's say $100 to $200 a month($1200-$2400 yearly), and you happen to visit even every 1-2 Months and tapping that ass for the whole time you're there, then it makes sense and in fact you're definitely spending less than if you were with other chicas during those weeks. 1 trip only in Sosua is normally $1200-$2400, my last 20 day trip was nearly $4000. Would only work if you're the type who's ok with 1 chica, better be a dime hopefully, and she basically would become a "Pre-Paid" hooker so to speak. Plus when you're down there no need for a hotel - in that alone you'd save lots of $. That's the main logic on why some men do this, especially since not everyone care about fucking 100 chicas a year. Some dudes are genuinely seeking better companionships than what we have going on back home, so why not?
Yes the $4000 mark i went wild on a 14 day trip spent $4000, mabey a bit much ,it was fun,, think next time stretch it out to 30 days, less money for random chicas and focus on a few repeats that will chill with you for dicount pussy.
Say get a aparment, buy food ,chica can cook, do inexspasive day trips.or just chill and relax, of cource sport smash a few chicas in beteewn your repeats, have fun !

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Re: my opinion on sending money to a chica.....
« Reply #262 on: October 12, 2019, 11:23:25 AM »
Murano, do you even enjoy whore mongering? Have you ever had a good experience? Listening to you, you’d think every chica in Sosua is a lazy, scamming, starfish with a stinky vagina and stretch marks.

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Re: my opinion on sending money to a chica.....
« Reply #263 on: October 12, 2019, 11:42:40 AM »
So what Murano2010 is proposing, just like Superman, Batman and others have done in the past, the same here mongers should form a Sosua Mongerers Justice Leaque, with a headquarters, a human resource dept, basically the whole shebang (pun intended or no intended?-- who cares!!! )!

So if the putering chicas in Sosua are not giving queen like treatment to their pesos paying Kings---you know---those Starfished prim donnas galore acting putas---hurting the SMJL members’ feelings---making them feel more insecure, undesirable, unsexable,  unattractive, than they already feel living in the “matrix”.

 Murano is saying and proposing to gather around fellow mongers--- to form a leaque, some sort of an Alliance, or maybe just unionize’, to combat these Sosua Starfishes Coalition Leaque (SSCL), and from time to time have a group therapy sessions with one another to discuss the members collective pain and hurtfulness that they have received from the evil putas--- SSCL!

Mirano2010 and MgtowSosua’s slogan: “Mongering equal rights for all, justice from starfish putas for all! Long Live Sosua!!!” 


Sentry if anything he sounds just like you. I am not for caring what hoes are saying,  you care about hoes soooo much that you are writing a book about falling in love with a unicorn, you want to turn a hoe into a housewife, you still believe in nonsense like love,,,, so corny of you sentry changing narrative like Trump.
Come on sentry how is your book? Did you find that unicorn to love and send money to via WU??? Is that your definition of alpha??
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Re: my opinion on sending money to a chica.....
« Reply #264 on: October 12, 2019, 12:03:16 PM »
So what Murano2010 is proposing, just like Superman, Batman and others have done in the past, the same here mongers should form a Sosua Mongerers Justice Leaque, with a headquarters, a human resource dept, basically the whole shebang (pun intended or no intended?-- who cares!!! )!

So if the putering chicas in Sosua are not giving queen like treatment to their pesos paying Kings---you know---those Starfished prim donnas galore acting putas---hurting the SMJL members’ feelings---making them feel more insecure, undesirable, unsexable,  unattractive, than they already feel living in the “matrix”.

 Murano is saying and proposing to gather around fellow mongers--- to form a leaque, some sort of an Alliance, or maybe just unionize’, to combat these Sosua Starfishes Coalition Leaque (SSCL), and from time to time have a group therapy sessions with one another to discuss the members collective pain and hurtfulness that they have received from the evil putas--- SSCL!

Mirano2010 and MgtowSosua’s slogan: “Mongering equal rights for all, justice from starfish putas for all! Long Live Sosua!!!” 


Sentry if anything he sounds just like you. I am not for caring what hoes are saying,  you care about hoes soooo much that you are writing a book about falling in love with a unicorn, you want to turn a hoe into a housewife, you still believe in nonsense like love,,,, so corny of you sentry changing narrative like Trump.
Come on sentry how is your book? Did you find that unicorn to love and send money to via WU??? Is that your definition of alpha??



Question for you MgtowSousa:

We know every hoe is a woman, but is every woman a hoe?

Now be very careful the way you answer the question: Because everyone on this forum(including you) have grandmothers, mothers, sisters, daughters, aunts, nieces!

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Re: my opinion on sending money to a chica.....
« Reply #265 on: October 12, 2019, 03:29:05 PM »
No Shit about the American Matrix,,Good points  ,,Sirs your in sosua to sport smash and move onto the next ,mabey have a TLN...These chicas are SEX WORKERS you pay them for SERVICES RENDERED , Sure they will give you the basics. Takes 2 to tango, some chica are into you some not so much,, VETTING CHICAS will reduce starfitch or bum chicas sessions..
I appreciate the cautions that you provided here.   However in spite of that,  there is only so much vetting of a chica that you can do to reduce BS. 

Examples

Vetting a chica with a dry pussy ( especially if she has become numb in her interactions with men ).   Vetting a chica that cant take dick.  Vetting a chica who seems convincing that she is ready to put in work, but ends up being a starfish. ( she gave you the right vibe, what she does in the bedroom is another story ).  Vetting a chica whose idea of sucking a dick is licking it, like it's a marble.   Vetting a chica for having a stink pussy?   Vetting a chica that breaks out with rules in the bed of what you can and cannot do, after you "vetted" her on what you wanted.     Vetting a chica who decides to leave early,  inspite of being warned?    Vetting a chica for ugly stretch marks, or some unsightly wounds that can make a man lose an erection?  Vetting a chica on her period or her having an STD.   

My overall point.   Vetting a chica makes a lot of sense.   Picking up a bad vibe could help a dude decide on moving forward or aborting.    But many a chica has shown a great attitude, and acted like she was into the dude only for that to change once secure in the mans spot.   

So when it comes to the aforementioned things that we all have seen or heard,  you may not be able to avoid those things because the objective of the chica is to get hired.   Not trying to give full disclosure because some dude took the time to vet her beforehand.        In fact we wouldnt need or have these stay away from this chica threads if these things were avoidable after you already hired the chick.  When we hire a chick to fuck,  we are paying for her time,  not necessarily for the performance we think we are paying for.     

And lets face it.   This forum shows you just how thirsty a lot of muggs are even with warnings on a chica.   Instead of a chica potentially losing business, instead she's probably going to get more business from thirsty muggs who want to hit it.    From that you kinda can guess that vetting a chica or boycotting her hustle aint a priority.   
   
We all know there are risks and no guarantees.   It's not about that.   Whats disturbing is the mentality of men that DONT support men.   Just like it is in the states.   Courts are full of examples of men dogging out men for alimony,CS, half of what the man has, have him kicked out of his own house.   

And when those men travel abroad they bring that same fucked up mindset because their allegiance is towards the support of females/women,  NOT MEN.   Any man speaking truth concerning behavior that applies to women is deemed to be hating women.   Sometimes I wish there was a real life DROP SQUAD crew that would put an end to female worship, and titty sucking.   


   

Be careful with that kind of statement, perhaps don't post while you're high or drunk LOL? Fucking w you!.... but I couldn't disagree more. You're actually doing what you are warning about, bringing back garbage habits from the state into the DR. NO NO NO NO, DR is NOT about paying for time. I repeat, not about time. Bringing this mentality is why some of the chicas are now asking $60 for 1 hour. Yes many in Sosua now dare quoting per HOUR LOL. I prefer the friendly vibe, let's go chill, when ST means "short time" and normally translates in 1-4 hours, or all day if she likes you until you.. and TLN used to mean full night all the way till morning. Now they dont even wanna do this because of men like you. In the US we pay for time bro..which is why technically escorting is legal...exact definition of the term. We pay strictly for companionship and her time, and what we do in private is our business ....bitches use this in their ads to keep police away right? It's the opposite in the DR bc this shit is legal and not a sellers market like it is back in the states.

Those ST and TLN GFE type deals have been happening for years incl performance expectation, and were the norm until lately when dudes cant keep their mouth shut, trying to "educate" those whores on how to run their biz. Few of you have even shown those bitches this forum for fuck's sake. Maybe some of you think by changing the way these girls do business you'll get free pussy, or not getting laid enough in the states causes you to lose your damn mind once you're getting some cheap whore pussy finally. Just perhaps. Not talking about you specifically, but those who are ruining this shit for others.

In the states you can vet whores and make sure you're getting a bj, backrub, sex, so why not in DR?.. in fact it makes more sense there since it's a buyer's market. Get it? Because we get to chose and select, we call the shot on what we want... simple!! Having the US Dollar gives you power to make the rules. If they under-performed, take your loss and move on to the next - if we all did that they'd change their behavior. Force them to see that you're not desperate and you are in control. I work hard for my money so I dont sit and complain about some dumb hoe...or worse dwell in all that negativity. It's your life and your hard earned trip so enjoy it the way you want within reason.
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Re: my opinion on sending money to a chica.....
« Reply #266 on: October 12, 2019, 05:40:05 PM »
I think it would be better if you had more dudes send money pay whatever they want. Las Vegas works because you have people on budget along with high rollers all together. Talent comes  to places when they see opportunities.  Your lying to yourself if you say there is more talent in sosua than in the past.  Top talent left sosua in droves. There is building boom in nightclubs all over the DR except sosua where it is in decline. I agree prices go up because dudes are thirsty, but when talent is in short supply prices go up.  They know you can not go anywhere else and do well.

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Re: my opinion on sending money to a chica.....
« Reply #267 on: October 12, 2019, 06:51:17 PM »
I discovered Sosua only 6 years ago, since then I sent 2 chicas $50 via WU.. ONLY twice. I was at BB for 6 days, wifed up a chica for my last two days but on last last day before I checked out to head to the Airport at 6AM.. I only gave her 2K pesos bc I ran out of change, out of cash, and didnt have time to hit the ATM.. It was a TLN and I owed her another 1K. Believe it or not she was cool with it bc we enjoyed each other's company for 2 full days and she made a lot of $, plus she knew I'd send her a bit more haha. The other one was a semi pro I fucked in Sosua, was free.. yeah right then she started begging me to send her $ and to become her novio. Since I popped that cherry quite a few times the least I could do was send her $50 and then shut it down.

Sending WU isnt the problem, it's how you do it. Don't become a typical WU novio. When you're not there and sending money on a Monthly basis bc you have a fantasy in your head that she's gonna be loyal, or worse you rent a place for her and now paying her bills. It can be done but it's rare, and if you do this with puta you met in sosua or you paid then you're an IDIOT. Don't fucking do it! Even if you manage to visit every Month for a week, during the other 3 weeks you're not there she's likely with someone else. You CANNOT turn a hoe into a housewife, at home or abroad! Dominicans party and drink a lot, they go out a lot. If you find one that's a true working class chica with kids, very busy, goes to church, a non-puta, and lives with good family perhaps it may work.

If you're only sending let's say $100 to $200 a month($1200-$2400 yearly), and you happen to visit even every 1-2 Months and tapping that ass for the whole time you're there, then it makes sense and in fact you're definitely spending less than if you were with other chicas during those weeks. 1 trip only in Sosua is normally $1200-$2400, my last 20 day trip was nearly $4000. Would only work if you're the type who's ok with 1 chica, better be a dime hopefully, and she basically would become a "Pre-Paid" hooker so to speak. Plus when you're down there no need for a hotel - in that alone you'd save lots of $. That's the main logic on why some men do this, especially since not everyone care about fucking 100 chicas a year. Some dudes are genuinely seeking better companionships than what we have going on back home, so why not?
I hear what you are saying.   I also understand the logic/rationale being used.    The part that I think seldom is included, is the fear factor of why guys send money.     In other words,  in enough cases us men cherry pick our reasons for the narrative we want to support.   Which looks good on us.   But there may be other reasons that are ignored into possible reasons for sending money.     Yeah, saving money is part of it.   Helping a friend is another.   Genuinely seeking better companionships etc are all logical rational reasons.   

What's missing, is the fear factor.   Many or enough guys send money because they are afraid the woman will disappear, and not be available.   Afraid not to send money for fear someone else may steer her interest away.    Guys arent necessarily concerned about being outbid, even though that is entirely possible.   What they are subconsciously concerned about is how not sending money will impact on the women feeling you dont care about her.     

See?   It's not enough to just wait until you see the girl when you finally get back.   Guys are sending money also for the reason of using that money to hopefully lubricate the womans interest until the guys return.   In enough cases,  guys dont even give a shit about the womans day to day financial situation.   The chick had them before she even knew the guy, and she will continue to have them long after he's gone.

When enough guys send money, they are doing it for the logical reasons that you mentioned,  but in the background it's also possible because they are hoping the money serves as a reservation to the womans juicebox.    But the under current is fear driven.   Because to be truthful.   Nobody ever has to send money to anybody if they dont want to.   They can just wait until they return and resume where they left off.    But men aint stupid.    Enough men have manufactured the belief that they have some kind of LD pretend relationship with a woman abroad.   And it has to be maintained by sending money or you put the relationship in jeopardy.   

Even if a dude lived in the DR,  there is an undercurrent of fear,  that drives how some men spend money with and around women.   They know that if benefits or resources came to a grinding halt, the chances of that woman sticking around is slim to none.   So guys,  including myself ( over the years past during my learning curve ) have devised a way to rationalize why we send money, and ignore the fear factor, so we dont have to deal with it.    "She's a good girl, so why not?"   "By doing it this way, I'm saving money"  "I'm paying in advance, she is gonna break me off when I get there"   

All surface reasons that make sense.   But nobody wants to consciously deal with the underlying fear factor of why they may be sending money.   The concern that the chick will take a no as a slap in the face.   As you dont like me papi.   Also the honest concern that other dudes are willingly supporting her,  and you look like a cheap bastard not willing to support the chick so you will get her stamp of approval.   No guys hardly uncover those reasons as inclusive.    They can and will deny it and only stick with the narrative that they choose to believe.     

Whenever I have this discussion, whether in forums like this,  or face to face, and the subject of try not sending money to see if you will have the same place in line at the juice box,  guys will never take that risk.   One reason is, they are convinced they are in a relationship with a chick above puta status.   And so many presumably dealing with a woman like that will NOT risk losing the chick by not honoring a request.   They feel locked in,  or they may lose the girl.    With a puta/sosua jump off there is no sense of loss.   No concern of losing your turn.   Some guys actually think they have accomplished something because they dont send money to putas.     Before I forget,  here's the rub.   It's not that guys are sending money voluntarily to their pretend GF's.     They are usually sending money based upon the request of their PG's.     If the women dont request, they dont send.   They send the money semi reluctantly,  but they send it out of fear that the chick will take a refusal as a rejection.    And therefore sense that he is putting his "relationship" in jeopardy.

That is another matrix driven mindset.    And it can stay with a man no matter where he goes in the world,  unless he himself addresses it, and stops lying to himself.    Include all of the reasons,  not just the ones that make you look good.   
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Re: my opinion on sending money to a chica.....
« Reply #268 on: October 12, 2019, 07:11:50 PM »


Be careful with that kind of statement, perhaps don't post while you're high or drunk LOL? Fucking w you!.... but I couldn't disagree more. You're actually doing what you are warning about, bringing back garbage habits from the state into the DR. NO NO NO NO, DR is NOT about paying for time. I repeat, not about time. Bringing this mentality is why some of the chicas are now asking $60 for 1 hour.
My point may have went over your head.  Misunderstood or taken out of context.    But to put things in the context I was using,  because Im not sure you got it?   The emphasis I was making is that whatever you pay a chica you have no control over the performance you are paying for.   The "time" reference I used was loosely meant to reflect a man hiring a chica.   Not "time" as to minutes and hours spent with a chic.   Get it?   

Now as far as "time" goes.   You say it is not about time, but you imply that this mentality is why some chicas are asking for money for an hour.   If it isnt about time, then how could you make that statement?  No sir.   You dont disagree with me.   Were not even focused on time the way you thought I meant it.     

What you disagree with is in how things have evolved.   Time with many of these chicas is already a factor.    Spending the least amount of time, offering the least amount of effort.   It's hit or miss, in regards to getting what you think you are paying for.      The average no sport fucking monger welcomes a non rushed ST or TLN session.   But if you are dealing with a broad that leaves after you nut in 30 min, and not even stay an hour,  there is your proof that enough of these muggs are about time.   In their favor, not yours.    So please explain to me,  how you arrived at the conclusion that in the DR it is not about time ( especially in how enough chicas operate )?   

 

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Re: my opinion on sending money to a chica.....
« Reply #269 on: October 12, 2019, 08:00:34 PM »
Murano, do you even enjoy whore mongering? Have you ever had a good experience? Listening to you, you’d think every chica in Sosua is a lazy, scamming, starfish with a stinky vagina and stretch marks.
Here's a partial answer.   Do you know how to read objectively, words on a computer screen with those you have a bias towards?  NO you dont.   To you,  how you relate to the messenger governs your ability or inability to do that.    If you read a post of someone you clearly have issues with,  your reaction and response will reflect that.   Maybe you dont think people can see it?    But I digress.   

When we talk about behavior,  we clearly talk about behavior in terms of whom it applies to ( that does not re translate into EVERY CHICA except in certain brain environments ).  There is no way any of us can account or represent the behavior of EVERY chica.    How did you even come up with every chica in the 1st place?     

When muggs cant or wont form a logical disagreement to whatever they supposedly disagree with, the 1st thing that happens is they distort and twist details to manufacture characteristics of their opposition.   They arent telling you what they disagree with in regards to the POV.   They disagree with the persona they think they are dealing with.   Not any POV.   

Unless you live in a dark closet and cant see,  when people use words like some, enough, to whom it applies to, refer to individuals that represent certain behavior,  that should resonate with an intelligent person that they arent talking about every member of one group.  But only about those that manifest that behavior.   Are you,  are arent you grasping that?   And if not,  why not?   


Last I checked.    Most of us here have lives besides posting on a message board.   

So you couldnt possibly know how a person interacts on a daily basis from words and topics on a computer screen designed for open discussion and debate.     You are letting your imagination run wild on what you think people represent in their POV.  You allowed your brain to process what you read to be about "every chica".    Remember this,  I can only think in one head.    The fucked up assumptions or conclusions in your head, are not a representation of whats in other peoples heads or what they post.   

There are always going to be lost causes that just wont get it, and ask the type of questions you are asking.   The flaws in character you assign to others,  is in your imagination and how you assimilate whats on your computer screen.   That is where you need to focus your attention to.   

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