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lovesusua

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Question for the vets. OK I have pipelined a few chicas on some online dating sites. Obvious the chica would be looking for some kind of propina, financial support.... none of the chica I am talking to have mentioned any money, YET!! but I realize non of these girls are going to hang around without some kind of financial incentive. So if I do get wifed up, what amount of financial support could be expected from a "much older guy" to be given to a "much younger chica"........Its not my intention to become one of her many WU papi after I am gone, and I am not going to confirm or deny to her about continuing to be her WU papi afterwards either, but I do not mind giving her the support whilst I am balling her. The question is How much should it be.... I am going to be staying in a nice apartment in Cabarete and I will be here for 2 months...... any financial advice guys......
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778technique

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She is probably practicing how to ask you let her give you a figure and chop as much as you want from there.

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She's not going to ask you for any set amount at the start. She'll just start asking you to pay for certain things. She will tell you her rent is due and she needs 5000 pesos. Or she owes her baby sitter 1000 pesos. Or she has a hospital bill that is due for 1200 pesos. Stuff like that. The ones who want you to become her Western Union dude will want that money on top of what you are paying for each session.

It's not quite like SeekingArrangements.com in the states, where some of dime pieces start out asking for a flat fee each month for a certain number of sessions.

I'm an older guy too and I would not agree to any set fee -- except for the sex. Beyond that do what you are comfortable with. Some older guys do score off the Dominican dating sites and get the chica to agree to a flat fee for weeks at a time. I have heard as little as 10,000 pesos for the month. I know, that sounds crazy low but it has happened. Sometimes an average-looking chica who is from a dirt poor family will come stay with a monger for 30 days just to get out of the ghetto. They treat it like a vacation with a nice man for fine dining, the beaches, a luxury condo, air conditioning, some nice gifts, etc.

On top of all that she gets 10,000 pesos to send back to her family.

Personally I think ten grand for a month is stupid low. But as I said, it has happened.

Also, it sounds like this is your first foray into this. Pulling a chica off the dating sites to wife up with site unseen is risky. Some don't look like their glamour photos once you meet them in person. Others forget to warn you that their period will be on during your stay. After a few days others get bored with you and will make up stories about having to go back home because the baby is sick. Others will put restrictions on how much sex you can have and when. And so on.

Keep in mind that the chicas aren't sex robots. They can stay in the zone for a few hours or a day, but if the vibe isn't there it could be a bad experience for both of you.

The bottom line is that as an older guy you shouldn't go into this expecting an incredibly romantic vacation with a beautiful Dominican girl. It may turn out that way but most of the time not really. You're better off visiting the island several times getting to know some chicas and then pick one of those to wife up with you on a future trip.

Personally, I would never try to set this kind of thing up online.

Good luck!
« Last Edit: November 20, 2018, 11:41:59 AM by FuenteFuente »
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Good advice from fuente.  There's no free lunch here.  Having a live in chica for days on end requires some chemistry.  U gotta meet the right chapis in person for that.

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She's not going to ask you for any set amount at the start. She'll just start asking you to pay for certain things. She will tell you her rent is due and she needs 5000 pesos. Or she owes her baby sitter 1000 pesos. Or she has a hospital bill that is due for 1200 pesos. Stuff like that. The ones who want you to become her Western Union dude will want that money on top of what you are paying for each session.

It's not quite like SeekingArrangements.com in the states, where some of dime pieces start out asking for a flat fee each month for a certain number of sessions.

I'm an older guy too and I would not agree to any set fee -- except for the sex. Beyond that do what you are comfortable with. Some older guys do score off the Dominican dating sites and get the chica to agree to a flat fee for weeks at a time. I have heard as little as 10,000 pesos for the month. I know, that sounds crazy low but it has happened. Sometimes an average-looking chica who is from a dirt poor family will come stay with a monger for 30 days just to get out of the ghetto. They treat it like a vacation with a nice man for fine dining, the beaches, a luxury condo, air conditioning, some nice gifts, etc.

On top of all that she gets 10,000 pesos to send back to her family.

Personally I think ten grand for a month is stupid low. But as I said, it has happened.

Also, it sounds like this is your first foray into this. Pulling a chica off the dating sites to wife up with site unseen is risky. Some don't look like their glamour photos once you meet them in person. Others forget to warn you that their period will be on during your stay. After a few days others get bored with you and will make up stories about having to go back home because the baby is sick. Others will put restrictions on how much sex you can have and when. And so on.

Keep in mind that the chicas aren't sex robots. They can stay in the zone for a few hours or a day, but if the vibe isn't there it could be a bad experience for both of you.

The bottom line is that as an older guy you shouldn't go into this expecting an incredibly romantic vacation with a beautiful Dominican girl. It may turn out that way but most of the time not really. You're better off visiting the island several times getting to know some chicas and then pick one of those to wife up with you on a future trip.

Personally, I would never try to set this kind of thing up online.

Good luck!

Some good advice there FuenteFuente thanks for your imput, I am not new to getting wifed up, done it in thailand many times....and I have heard all the excuses for extra cash. I always find having a dud ATM card handy and let the chica think one has suddenly a cash flow problem, cools off the money demand. Also I am not telling the chica how long I am staying. That way I will tryout two or three chicas, and stay with the one who has the best vibe. I will always have an escape plan. Thats the way I have always managed it in Thailand. Before even considering getting wifed up to any chica I have video chat with them and get to see their real looks. I know A relationship can change and the vibe can go bad so one has to plan for that possible eventuality.

So basically I am just looking to find out what the "expectation" would be from a chica from the barrio would be. Paying 10,000 for a month seems a bit of an insult so would 20,000 for a month be acceptable plus her keep and entertainment?  and a comfy bed....any further comments please from anyone
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lovesusua

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Good advice from fuente.  There's no free lunch here.  Having a live in chica for days on end requires some chemistry.  U gotta meet the right chapis in person for that.

I agree but all I am doing is a bit of pipeline work, so I have the chapis to meet on arrival, or more like when they think I have arrived
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Dud atm cards?  Not telling the chapi when your leaving?  These are pro moves bro.  We should be asking u for tips.

Hard to advise on price.  Some will take 2500 a day, some want 5000. 
« Last Edit: November 20, 2018, 04:26:01 PM by streeteasy »

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I had good luck on Badoo finding non-pro chicas. I messaged with one constantly for about three months. I think I also got lucky because the chemistry was there right off the bat as soon as I met her in person. We had a great time over several trips and she never asked for crazy amounts of money or gifts. What did it in finally was that kind of chica is looking for the relationship to progress, wants exclusivity, wants a ring.

Now when I visit I am with pros I have known for a year-plus (former pros as far as it is possible to tell). It can be a great arrangement especially if you are staying down there in a villa for say, a month. It does not have to be super-expensive either. The chica I have known the longest especially jumps at the chance to get out of her living situation. I am about 20 years older than my regular two chicas (I prefer chicas over 25 as younger than that they tend to act up quite a bit). I keep the party rolling and keep it fun and that seems to be enough for them. When they need to go out for a few hours, it is understood I may spend time with another chica, but whatever it is it will be on the DL.

The age difference can really be an advantage. DR chicas do not look at an age difference anything like US women do. A 50 year old guy for example simply is less of a risk to them, and possibly a bunch more fun, then chicos their own age. Of course this is only a generalization, they know the average 50 year old gringo has more money, likely less girlfriends, likely less drug/alcohol issues, less likely to give them an STD, etc.

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been there done that, my advice dont  do it till you have a few trips under your belt. You should do short time till you vibe with the chica for longer stays.. if i were to rent a place i would only have chicas visit for a few days and have 2 or 3 in a roster so you dont get bored ,Set Ground rules, and say you will be entertaining other chicas, use the chica net work, meaning you can smash the mother, sister cousins and friends,,,dont forget granny too, if your a cool dude and not cheapy cheapy they will be trying to get you to fuck them,,,,
Dont get stuck trying to suport them if they got no jobs, once you hit them raw then your going to be there novio or esperso  code word husband... you will be exspected to pay the rent,cell phone bill.salon hair and nails, food and money for a son or daughter back in haiti if hatian , so mabey 500- 600 a month usd,, some times more,yeah you mite get a diamond in the ruff but once you cut them off they will move onto the next  best off luck 1

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So basically I am just looking to find out what the "expectation" would be from a chica from the barrio would be. Paying 10,000 for a month seems a bit of an insult so would 20,000 for a month be acceptable plus her keep and entertainment?  and a comfy bed....any further comments please from anyone

She's going to want what she feels she could make in the streets in a month. Some of the chicas don't make as much money in a week as guys think. That is why chicas are so aggressive and will sometimes settle for as little as 1000-1500 pesos. I keep telling guys this all the time. Even at Blackbeards, where the rate is set at 2100 pesos, short-time, some of the girls go home at the end of their eight-hour shift with nothing on a slow day.

But let's say a chica from the barrio is averaging 1-2 mongers a day at 2000. That's an average of 15,000 pesos a week with two days off -- 60,000 pesos over a month. But the thing is, very few chicas in Sosua are knocking it out of the park like that on a daily basis. Many hit dry spells for whatever reason. Maybe the policia are being super aggressive. Maybe the weather is bad. Maybe the economy is soft in the U.S. and mongers aren't coming, etc.

Bottom line is that I think an offer of 20,000 pesos a month, plus fine dining and some gifts, would do it for a whole lot of chicas, even dime pieces. Keep in mind that earnings of 10,000 pesos a month is a good salary for unskilled laborers in the DR. https://www.minimum-wage.org/international/dominican-republic

Good luck.

« Last Edit: November 20, 2018, 05:12:10 PM by FuenteFuente »
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Dud atm cards?  Not telling the chapi when your leaving?  These are pro moves bro.  We should be asking u for tips.

Hard to advise on price.  Some will take 2500 a day, some want 5000.

I think you are talking full time hoe prices there, I am looking at hooking up on dating websites not at the bars or the Sosua stri., So the girls are not presenting themselves as hoes (still does not rule them out as having been on the hoe market, and once a hoe always a hoe)
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Sir your talking semi pro.. A chica that does have a regular job and may go out meet mongers on donimican cupid for a few extra pesos. Some will get offended  when you ask them how much, thats when you offer 2000 0r 3000 peso say its for there house mabey more if she was off the charts.  You have to weed out the harden pros  they will ask for money right off the bat , best of luck !!!!

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Dud atm cards?  Not telling the chapi when your leaving?  These are pro moves bro.  We should be asking u for tips.

Hard to advise on price.  Some will take 2500 a day, some want 5000.

Should I take your comment as a compliment? well I might as well give some advise on my gameplan, maybe someone can use it to their advantage

Read The Art of War by Sun Tzu, to learn about tactics you can put into practice in your daily life,,

The Dud atm card has saved me money countless of times especially in thailand when I have been asked to pay for the sick buffalo, sick mother in Hospital etc. No chica wants to hang around a gringo Who seems to be broke, and sometime one needs to portray that image.

 Never ever show your playing cards to any chica, keep your aces well hidden, These chicas are playing life like a game of poker, so you got to learn when to bluff or call with these chicas just like a professional poker player in a card game. the less she knows about you the better but you can feed her with misinformation which will motivate her to do something positive in your favor. They do it, so its fair game for you to do it too .

I do not know much about DR I have never been there yet, but that does not mean I have not got mongering life experience that will benefit me in the DR,   I have spent 62 years going through the University of Life  I am preparing a gameplan for an enjoyable winter stay in cabarete, and I will prepare a trip report for all to enjoy reading.

I thank all those who have contributed answers to my questions I have asked on these forums

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been there done that, my advice dont  do it till you have a few trips under your belt. You should do short time till you vibe with the chica for longer stays.. if i were to rent a place i would only have chicas visit for a few days and have 2 or 3 in a roster so you dont get bored ,Set Ground rules, and say you will be entertaining other chicas, use the chica net work, meaning you can smash the mother, sister cousins and friends,,,dont forget granny too, if your a cool dude and not cheapy cheapy they will be trying to get you to fuck them,,,,
Dont get stuck trying to suport them if they got no jobs, once you hit them raw then your going to be there novio or esperso  code word husband... you will be exspected to pay the rent,cell phone bill.salon hair and nails, food and money for a son or daughter back in haiti if hatian , so mabey 500- 600 a month usd,, some times more,yeah you mite get a diamond in the ruff but once you cut them off they will move onto the next  best off luck 1

LOL. Been there, done that. I've gone through an entire family -- the chica, her sister, aunt and the mom. Crazy, but it happens.
Women need a reason to have sex. Men just need a place. Sosua will do just fine.

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been there done that, my advice dont  do it till you have a few trips under your belt. You should do short time till you vibe with the chica for longer stays.. if i were to rent a place i would only have chicas visit for a few days and have 2 or 3 in a roster so you dont get bored ,Set Ground rules, and say you will be entertaining other chicas, use the chica net work, meaning you can smash the mother, sister cousins and friends,,,dont forget granny too, if your a cool dude and not cheapy cheapy they will be trying to get you to fuck them,,,,
Dont get stuck trying to suport them if they got no jobs, once you hit them raw then your going to be there novio or esperso  code word husband... you will be exspected to pay the rent,cell phone bill.salon hair and nails, food and money for a son or daughter back in haiti if hatian , so mabey 500- 600 a month usd,, some times more,yeah you mite get a diamond in the ruff but once you cut them off they will move onto the next  best off luck 1

I'll Smash the sisters, friends and if she was much younger then me the mother too, but I am drawing the line at the granny unless she is under 35. I have my set mongering standards that I will not cross the line on
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