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Re: Some may consider this simp talk
« Reply #30 on: October 04, 2018, 11:27:55 AM »
I took on an 18 year old 14 years ago. She was living with her aunt and wanted out on her own. She wasn’t a street girl. I met her through a friend. Smart kid. Spoke both limited French and English.  Cost me about $125 a month. Back then I was making $150,000 a year. Went through all types of changes with her at first. Had to dump her after about a year. We eventually got back together after she had a kid. Spent the next three years with her. She grew to be an absolutely wonderful person. We remained in touch until cancer took her a couple of years ago at age 29. They all aren’t whores. None-the-less I would caution anyone from entering into a long distance cross cultural relationship. They are extremely difficult to make work.

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Re: Some may consider this simp talk
« Reply #31 on: October 04, 2018, 12:03:28 PM »
@Montanaaa, yo bro we all turn corners differently...but I’m going to stick with my original quote “we all fucking the same hoes” Sousa is the wrong place to be talking about,”if Things were different”. Enjoy your GF experience and I will continue to Sport Fuck homie. It’s all good I respect your journey.
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Re: Some may consider this simp talk
« Reply #32 on: October 04, 2018, 12:25:04 PM »
For sure Pump and Dump, yeah if you fall in love with these how you they will pump your bank account dry then dump you when you say no mas (more ) dineros.  Quote from a hatian chica to a WU simp on her what's app list If You love me send money ;

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Re: Some may consider this simp talk
« Reply #33 on: October 04, 2018, 12:56:59 PM »
@GhostWorld @STARLORD I hear you guys on that. I understand half of the things said will be lies. I understand the long game for her would be for me to be like lets get married and come back to NYC with me, which is never happening. I understand she's a hoe which is why when I saw her talking to some dude we just looked at each other and I kept it moving without interrupting her business transaction. As a new monger i'm looking long term as having a few regular girls that I know i'll enjoy my time with, sprinkled with the occasional randoms. If I have to occasionally take her out to eat, buy her some drinks, hear some of her drama, etc.. it isn't an issue for me as long as i'm enjoying my time with her.

There is another good thread doing on about this kind of stuff and it was pointed out that as long both sides understand what the relationship is (she's a hoe / i'm a monger) who enjoy each others company then nothing wrong with that. I'm certainly not going to be a WU novio and having said that if once in a blue moon she's like hey can you send me X amount for so and so then if I feel like sending it for that particular request so be it. It'll be no different from how I would treat a friend in need.


That might sound like a sucker move, but if it ain't money i'm losing sleep over and it is a rare request then no biggie for me. We just have to be honest with each other and the type of relationship that we have. Now i'm not talking about this girl in particular, just met her but just a general mindset that I have. I know some probably knock me for having given her the $500 to get home, but our first night she charged me $3500 for 2 pops and last night she was offering it to me for $1500 and the quality for this girl is not definitely at the $1500 level. Now Friday we're going to spend most of the day together and the price will be much lower than the $3500 she originally charged me when I met her. Sure, in her mind it might be an "investment/long game" or as others have stated not everyone gets charged the same. Some girls charge differently depending on how much they're into you and those are facts. What I won't do is make  false promises and I will always be straight with her and the first time she tries to hit me with some sob story and a WU request she will immediately know where I stand.

 That is the exact definition of becoming a WesternUnion boyfriend. You just aren’t doing it monthly or in a regular tip. Broke unless she can send you pussy via WesternUnion or the Mail and you have been played. She has pulled on your heartstrings and made you feel like she’s a friend? So you’re telling me you have hookers that are friends of yours? And if they ask you for money you’re going to give them money these hooker friends that you have in the states. I’m not attacking you at all bro I’m just trying to get an understanding of the mentality of where you feel there’s some sort of great area. There’s no gray area. The gray area is the way they suck you in. I’ve seen it so many times so if it seems  like I’m pressing it’s because I’ve seen so many men just like you that’s a no no way never end up with a hooker who is pregnant, with a hooker he sending money, catching feelings for a hooker, justifying that she’s just a woman who is in a bad way and if she only had the opportunity she would never adds sold her vagina. Only to find out that she fucked his brother. Never happened to me because I just don’t ever believe these wars. There is an island full of women who work every single day or who don’t work and go to school. There’s no such thing as a good girl Just sitting at home. Because listen if she’s cute she will find a Dominican man that will at least help her pay for her college or university since it’s really not that expensive. Come on guys I just don’t want you guys falling for the same thing I know you’re telling yourself it will never be you but think of this not one man not one monger has ever said Yep I’m going to become one of those guys. But they did.
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Re: Some may consider this simp talk
« Reply #34 on: October 04, 2018, 01:14:43 PM »
I get what you're saying @GhostWorld but I guess my point is that lets say she hits me up one day for $50 and i've been talking to this girl on the regular just because I enjoy talking to her. It is possible I might send her the $50 without expecting anything in return under no illusion that she isn't hoeing around or that she's sitting in DR waiting for me. Now if she hits me up several times a yr with that nonsense you better believe that's the end of our interaction.

This to me is no different then when i've "lent" my cousin $200 because he was in a jam. Did I ever expect to see that money back? No, but I made it clear to him don't ever hit me for it again and it's money I wasn't going to miss (I make a good living). Another example, this is no different for me as me seeing someone asking for money for food back in the states and instead of giving them some spare change me instead getting them something to eat.

Would I ever make one of these girls my girlfriend? Heck no, but when I visit DR she would sure be one of my regulars which is better than spending $40-$60 on someone who might give me a bad performance. Does this mean she'll give me pussy for free? Possible, but doubt it. Does this mean she'll give me a discount? Likely, but no expectation of it. My point is I would never be  under the illusion of what she is and isn't and I would never give up money that I will lose sleep over.

Do these hoes play the long game? Sure, but so am I. Having a consistent regular whose company I enjoy instead of a simple pump & dump means more than a few bucks here and there for me. Again, this is just a general mentality on my part and not like I have some sort of arrangement with this girl who i've only seen twice.

So I hear you loud and clear in all your warnings and do appreciate it.

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Re: Some may consider this simp talk
« Reply #35 on: October 04, 2018, 01:15:48 PM »
Not sure if this is on topic... Bartenders and waitresses.

Two types, two answers if you ask one out and get a positive result.

1/ Sure, I get off at 4:00am

2/ Sure, i have next Tuesday off.

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Re: Some may consider this simp talk
« Reply #36 on: October 04, 2018, 01:21:23 PM »
I get what you're saying @GhostWorld but I guess my point is that lets say she hits me up one day for $50 and i've been talking to this girl on the regular just because I enjoy talking to her. It is possible I might send her the $50 without expecting anything in return under no illusion that she isn't hoeing around or that she's sitting in DR waiting for me. Now if she hits me up several times a yr with that nonsense you better believe that's the end of our interaction.

This to me is no different then when i've "lent" my cousin $200 because he was in a jam. Did I ever expect to see that money back? No, but I made it clear to him don't ever hit me for it again and it's money I wasn't going to miss (I make a good living). Another example, this is no different for me as me seeing someone asking for money for food back in the states and instead of giving them some spare change me instead getting them something to eat.

Would I ever make one of these girls my girlfriend? Heck no, but when I visit DR she would sure be one of my regulars which is better than spending $40-$60 on someone who might give me a bad performance. Does this mean she'll give me pussy for free? Possible, but doubt it. Does this mean she'll give me a discount? Likely, but no expectation of it. My point is I would never be  under the illusion of what she is and isn't and I would never give up money that I will lose sleep over.

Do these hoes play the long game? Sure, but so am I. Having a consistent regular whose company I enjoy instead of a simple pump & dump means more than a few bucks here and there for me. Again, this is just a general mentality on my part and not like I have some sort of arrangement with this girl who i've only seen twice.

So I hear you loud and clear in all your warnings and do appreciate it.


First I want to say that you are allowed to live in any way that makes you happy my brother. If having her in your life adds value than my God sending her $50 is more than worth it. So please don’t get it mistaken when I say what I am saying.

 I think I didn’t preference what I’m saying with something super important and that’s this. We are human man. Let’s not refer to human beings I’m specifically talking about being human men. We have the issue of having our brains directly wired to our dick. So here is the issue and it’s super super important for you don’t understand what I’m saying. If you fuck a female role you will have feelings for her no matter how much you think you have a cold demeanor. If you fuck a woman more than three times then you like her. There’s no way in stopping human male emotion.  But you can make it so that she doesn’t suck you win by doing coldhearted shit even if it’s not really in your nature. It’s a way of protecting yourself from your own Achilles’ heel and for us man that’s our dick. It literally has made it where men have the ugliest of elephants and still caught feelings because he fucked her role. Don’t you notice after you fuck a chick a few times no matter how ugly she is you’ll start seeing what  Little cute things about her there is. I’m just trying to school the young boys vicariously through your post. Because no matter what you do if you have a penis you have a weakness as a man.


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Re: Some may consider this simp talk
« Reply #37 on: October 05, 2018, 07:13:47 AM »
I took on an 18 year old 14 years ago. She was living with her aunt and wanted out on her own. She wasn’t a street girl. I met her through a friend. Smart kid. Spoke both limited French and English.  Cost me about $125 a month. Back then I was making $150,000 a year. Went through all types of changes with her at first. Had to dump her after about a year. We eventually got back together after she had a kid. Spent the next three years with her. She grew to be an absolutely wonderful person. We remained in touch until cancer took her a couple of years ago at age 29. They all aren’t whores. None-the-less I would caution anyone from entering into a long distance cross cultural relationship. They are extremely difficult to make work.

If long distance cross cultural relationship are extremely difficult to make it work......then why in the F*@K do you get into one in the first place????
150K and it was costing you 125USD a month and that was a lot of work for you,,,,something does not add up.

Anyways, Look guys if you are the sensitive, beta male monger then go ahead and do you, but don't get upset when things turn ugly for you.
LIFE IS TOO DAMN SHORT to develop "feelings" for women in a poor country, do you honestly think they see you as someone they want to start a meaningful "relationship"? Most women around the world and throughout time see men as "resource of something". I mean we as men are very simple creatures, we have the capacity to really love and give everything for that person, but MOST women won't reciprocate that, as soon as your ass gets on that plane back home, she will be with another novio working for her own thing without even thinking about you. AS LONG AS YOU KEEP THIS IN MIND YOU CAN SAFELY LIVE YOUR GFE.

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Re: Some may consider this simp talk
« Reply #38 on: October 05, 2018, 07:25:32 AM »
I am not trolling guys, and I am not trying to offend my fellow mongers.
But I think I have an idea why there is even a post like this.
Some of the mongers here don't get ass back home, and when they go to sosua, its like an oasis for some thirsty mongers, Hey I feel you guys women in the US suck period, too much work and money just to get a lousy fuck session.
Some mongers yearn the feeling of feeling "wanted" by a woman, sort of like being a young stud and having ALL these young hoes in the DR looking at you like a rock star and powerful man and stuff. I tell ya, that is a great feeling i like it too.
If that is your case, by all means turn your fantasy into a reality,,,, JUST BE CAREFUL,,, no matter what,,,,they are hoes, and even the "good girls" the ones you meet from a "friend" or she happened to see you in the supermarket, just remember they see us foreigners as walking ATMs.
CHEERS

Again I am not trying to offend anyone here, I'm just simply giving some of you guys some good advice. I am not advocating treating women in DR (either pro or nonpro) with disrespect nor contempt either.

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Re: Some may consider this simp talk
« Reply #39 on: October 05, 2018, 09:38:48 AM »
@ Elking

Some of us actually enjoy the company of females. Here’s something I wrote about our relationship many moons ago.

La Esposa

“the wife” defined – this term entered my vernacular as a reference to a tall flaca blanca with dirty blonde hair that I spent entirely too much time with over the course of three trips. Ella talked incessantly (in English). Said strange things after sex like “you like didn’t you” (I didn’t say her English was perfect). Was forever asking for money to go shopping (which I never gave her; okay maybe once or twice). Took things without permission and liberated small amounts of cash from my pockets when I was stupid enough to leave it there. I had no mental defense against this woman. She’d flash that crooked smile at me and my willpower would evaporate as fast as spittle on the sidewalks of Pedro Clisante during the first week of July. When ever she showed up at Classico the rest of my evening was destined to be spent with her. Finally she did something that broke the spell. She stole my lube. Yes, that’s right, she walked off with my fucking Astro Glide. From that ensued one of the more hilarious arguments I’ve ever participated in, standing in the Merengue Bar yelling at her for stealing my lube. Okay enough of that. Moving forward.

Since then the term has morphed to mean a woman who is among the first you call when you arrive and who you always have to talk to or see on the day you leave. She is the one you spend the most time with, hide your activities from, rarely if ever take calls from other women in her presence, introduce her to all your friends and anyone else you might have cause to introduce yourself to. You also know some member of her family and her family in general knows about you.

I met the current wife two years ago. Then she was an 18 year old living with her aunt and planning to escape (I was to eventually become her ticket out). We were introduced by a mutual friend. The first time I saw her she was the last of 4 chicas to climb into the SUV a friend of mine’s was renting. I looked back and had to make a double take. Though she was in bad need of a visit to the salon she was obviously very attractive. Our first session together lasted over two hours. On the sexual compatibility scale we are at 95%. Through all the rough times we’ve gone through sex has always been the tie that bound.

The wife is about 5’3”. She is petite with small high breasts, slim waist and shoulders and a great little behind. According to her the color of her skin is blanca. Upon first hearing this I responded that, no, she was amarillo. This elicited a mildly surprised look from her and then a belly laugh. She has an intelligent look that is mildly fox like. She possesses a high fwide forehead and her face tapers to a mild point at the bottom. Her jaws and chin protrude slightly forward. Her long thin nose tapers slightly upward at the end lending her face the fox like appearance. Her most prominent features are her large almond light brown eyes, toothy smile, and long delicate neck. Her hair is colored light brown and falls to her shoulders. She is actually prettier than I like to admit, but I wouldn’t want her to know that because her ego is already big enough.

After our first meeting we hooked up for some part of the next three trips. At the end of trip three I gave her an old phone I had and my state side number. This was November. By January she was asking for help to move out of her tia’s casa. By this time she had vaulted my defenses and landed squarely on my heart strings. No, I’ve never been in love with her. I simply like her a lot. She has that thing that some women have where they know just when to touch you or provide you with a sweet loving look. If she is into you, you are the center of her attention. Soon she would prove that she was quite capable of treating more than one man in that manner.

She explains that her job pays just 3,000 pesos a month and she has 2,000 pesos, but needs 4,000 more to move in. The rent will be 3,000 pesos a month and she would like my help. Alright I got a soft spot for this one and she’s asking for $150 up front and $90 a month. I explain that if I do this it would be the full extend of my financial contributions to her life. She agrees and I enter the world of monthly chica maintenance fees. This continues for two months.

On the next trip she’s acting just a little bit strange. She has all these things to do in POP and can’t seem to find the time to spend the night. I don’t try to press for a visit to her place because frankly I don’t want to spend the night in the barrio. This is a short trip so we limp through it.

Two weeks later I call and a guy answers the phone. I ask for her and he says she is not there. When I grill her about this she says it was a stupid brother of her amiga who had taken her phone in an attempt to get her attention. Real shaky story, but I’m willing to give her the benefit of the doubt. A week later the same guy answers the phone. I attempt to have a conversation with him, however, my very limited Spanish makes this about as possible or as sensible as swimming off the coast of POP. What I do is have my local contact call and the truth is revealed. The fellow explains to my friend that he is her boyfriend. I later find out that he is living in the apartment I’m subsidizing. Can your spell pendajo? She and I trade emails and phone calls. At no point does she admit to anything. She simply lies through her teeth. I’m sweet on this one yet I have never stopped chasing tail while on the island. I understand she is young and I am not there, but some things are unacceptable. I stop paying rent, stop calling, and won’t pick up when she calls. Eventually she gets the message and stops sending emails asking me to take her back.

Remember that sexually compatibility thing? Within 2 months we’re fucking again and continued to do so, without payment of rent, through the next trip. Then she vanished without a trace. I later find out she is pregnant and do not see her again for approximately 9 months.

Over the ensuing 9 months the party never stops. Trips come and trips go. Occasionally I ask a mutual friend about her whereabouts. I’m told she is living outside of STI with the father of the child and that she lost her job because they did not want an unmarried pregnant woman in the position, other than that nothing. About the 5th month of her disappearance she leaves a message on my state-side phone. It simply says “hello, how are you? I hope you are well” in a very small voice. She sounds very lonely. I carry this thought with me for way too long.

The friend I use for my limited source of information tells me I’m in enamarado and will take care of her and the baby if she ever finds her way back to POP. I know the first accusation to be false. I’m way too old and cynical to have love for anything more than small children and lately I’ve had difficulty even finding them to be cute and lovable. The second, knowing my weaknesses and where I come from, was a little bit closer to the truth than I wanted to admit at the time.

I was later to find out she returned to her family in POP in early January unwanted, unloved and 9 months pregnant. She had the baby in early February. By early March our mutual friend facilitated a call between us. Our conversations had always been difficult due to my limited Spanish and her (I would later come to find out) reluctance to speak much English. We’d speak at most 10 to 15 minutes before I became sufficiently frustrated to end the call. What did come through, by her failure to address her long absence, was that she was unapologetic. Damn I expected a “lo siento no te llamar” or “yo eras muy stupido”. What I got was smug attitude and a silently expressed conviction that I was to simply take her back with no questions asked and no apology expected. Pissed off I did not talk to her for three weeks. I then received an email where she spoke of her unhappiness and how difficult it was being a single mother without resources. We started communicating again and just as I feared I volunteered to help her with the baby and her life by providing 4,000 pesos a month until she could find a job. I know many of you are thinking I’m stupid which depending on your perspective just might be true. The way I see it I’m the father of two sons who I took everywhere with me from before they were able to walk. I’m also a man who was raised in a single parent household who has known and still knows too many single mothers. I truly understand the travails and frustrations of raising children on your own. Also I have a weakness and fondness for babies.

So here I am sending her cash and I’ve not even seen her. I come down as I’ve done now for 3 years to vacation during Samana Santa. I go to POP to the house of her sister where she is staying. I am prepared for the worst, but am pleasantly surprised though she is still carrying much more culo that she had before she is not much worse for wear. The baby was born naturally so she has escaped the trademark nasty Dominican cesarean scar. The breasts no longer stand at attention, but at least they don’t hang. All in all she’s come through the pregnancy pretty much unaffected. We spend two days together and the old sexual magic is alive and well. However, the distraction of having to find a sitter, the need to head home early for the baby, the fact that I have major trust issues with this woman, and the arrival of La Jovenita results in our spending limited time together. I basically abandon her about the third day of my stay and leave 6 days later without saying goodbye. When I talk to her after getting home she makes me feel like the heel I some time can be. Guilt has a way of forcing you to empathize. Forces you to address the fact you aren’t an innocent bystander. I decide to forgive her for her transgressions and start anew, however since contrary to what some of you my have concluded, I’m not stupid I vow to erect an emotional barrier to safe me from falling into the abyss.

To be honest even with our relatively long history together the current wife was running second, for the honor of holding the title this trip, to La Jovenita, until she miraculously developed the ability to speak English three weeks ago. We start that day’s conversation with me struggling with my bad Spanish and suddenly she starts speaking English. This goes on for 15 fucking minutes. I wanted to strangle her ass. Now that I could actually understand her we started to become closer. That and an uncharacteristic slip up by La Jovenita sealed the deal.

I know for certain my relationship with her will end badly. Either she will find another or I will. For now I trust her as far as I can throw her yet I thoroughly enjoy her company. I often suggest to her that she find some local guy to marry and that I don’t believe her when she says she cares about me (which I don’t). None-the-less one thing I know for certain is when she is gone I will always remember her fondly.

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Re: Some may consider this simp talk
« Reply #40 on: October 05, 2018, 05:18:49 PM »
@ Elking

Some of us actually enjoy the company of females. Here’s something I wrote about our relationship many moons ago.

La Esposa

“the wife” defined – this term entered my vernacular as a reference to a tall flaca blanca with dirty blonde hair that I spent entirely too much time with over the course of three trips. Ella talked incessantly (in English). Said strange things after sex like “you like didn’t you” (I didn’t say her English was perfect). Was forever asking for money to go shopping (which I never gave her; okay maybe once or twice). Took things without permission and liberated small amounts of cash from my pockets when I was stupid enough to leave it there. I had no mental defense against this woman. She’d flash that crooked smile at me and my willpower would evaporate as fast as spittle on the sidewalks of Pedro Clisante during the first week of July. When ever she showed up at Classico the rest of my evening was destined to be spent with her. Finally she did something that broke the spell. She stole my lube. Yes, that’s right, she walked off with my fucking Astro Glide. From that ensued one of the more hilarious arguments I’ve ever participated in, standing in the Merengue Bar yelling at her for stealing my lube. Okay enough of that. Moving forward.

Since then the term has morphed to mean a woman who is among the first you call when you arrive and who you always have to talk to or see on the day you leave. She is the one you spend the most time with, hide your activities from, rarely if ever take calls from other women in her presence, introduce her to all your friends and anyone else you might have cause to introduce yourself to. You also know some member of her family and her family in general knows about you.

I met the current wife two years ago. Then she was an 18 year old living with her aunt and planning to escape (I was to eventually become her ticket out). We were introduced by a mutual friend. The first time I saw her she was the last of 4 chicas to climb into the SUV a friend of mine’s was renting. I looked back and had to make a double take. Though she was in bad need of a visit to the salon she was obviously very attractive. Our first session together lasted over two hours. On the sexual compatibility scale we are at 95%. Through all the rough times we’ve gone through sex has always been the tie that bound.

The wife is about 5’3”. She is petite with small high breasts, slim waist and shoulders and a great little behind. According to her the color of her skin is blanca. Upon first hearing this I responded that, no, she was amarillo. This elicited a mildly surprised look from her and then a belly laugh. She has an intelligent look that is mildly fox like. She possesses a high fwide forehead and her face tapers to a mild point at the bottom. Her jaws and chin protrude slightly forward. Her long thin nose tapers slightly upward at the end lending her face the fox like appearance. Her most prominent features are her large almond light brown eyes, toothy smile, and long delicate neck. Her hair is colored light brown and falls to her shoulders. She is actually prettier than I like to admit, but I wouldn’t want her to know that because her ego is already big enough.

After our first meeting we hooked up for some part of the next three trips. At the end of trip three I gave her an old phone I had and my state side number. This was November. By January she was asking for help to move out of her tia’s casa. By this time she had vaulted my defenses and landed squarely on my heart strings. No, I’ve never been in love with her. I simply like her a lot. She has that thing that some women have where they know just when to touch you or provide you with a sweet loving look. If she is into you, you are the center of her attention. Soon she would prove that she was quite capable of treating more than one man in that manner.

She explains that her job pays just 3,000 pesos a month and she has 2,000 pesos, but needs 4,000 more to move in. The rent will be 3,000 pesos a month and she would like my help. Alright I got a soft spot for this one and she’s asking for $150 up front and $90 a month. I explain that if I do this it would be the full extend of my financial contributions to her life. She agrees and I enter the world of monthly chica maintenance fees. This continues for two months.

On the next trip she’s acting just a little bit strange. She has all these things to do in POP and can’t seem to find the time to spend the night. I don’t try to press for a visit to her place because frankly I don’t want to spend the night in the barrio. This is a short trip so we limp through it.

Two weeks later I call and a guy answers the phone. I ask for her and he says she is not there. When I grill her about this she says it was a stupid brother of her amiga who had taken her phone in an attempt to get her attention. Real shaky story, but I’m willing to give her the benefit of the doubt. A week later the same guy answers the phone. I attempt to have a conversation with him, however, my very limited Spanish makes this about as possible or as sensible as swimming off the coast of POP. What I do is have my local contact call and the truth is revealed. The fellow explains to my friend that he is her boyfriend. I later find out that he is living in the apartment I’m subsidizing. Can your spell pendajo? She and I trade emails and phone calls. At no point does she admit to anything. She simply lies through her teeth. I’m sweet on this one yet I have never stopped chasing tail while on the island. I understand she is young and I am not there, but some things are unacceptable. I stop paying rent, stop calling, and won’t pick up when she calls. Eventually she gets the message and stops sending emails asking me to take her back.

Remember that sexually compatibility thing? Within 2 months we’re fucking again and continued to do so, without payment of rent, through the next trip. Then she vanished without a trace. I later find out she is pregnant and do not see her again for approximately 9 months.

Over the ensuing 9 months the party never stops. Trips come and trips go. Occasionally I ask a mutual friend about her whereabouts. I’m told she is living outside of STI with the father of the child and that she lost her job because they did not want an unmarried pregnant woman in the position, other than that nothing. About the 5th month of her disappearance she leaves a message on my state-side phone. It simply says “hello, how are you? I hope you are well” in a very small voice. She sounds very lonely. I carry this thought with me for way too long.

The friend I use for my limited source of information tells me I’m in enamarado and will take care of her and the baby if she ever finds her way back to POP. I know the first accusation to be false. I’m way too old and cynical to have love for anything more than small children and lately I’ve had difficulty even finding them to be cute and lovable. The second, knowing my weaknesses and where I come from, was a little bit closer to the truth than I wanted to admit at the time.

I was later to find out she returned to her family in POP in early January unwanted, unloved and 9 months pregnant. She had the baby in early February. By early March our mutual friend facilitated a call between us. Our conversations had always been difficult due to my limited Spanish and her (I would later come to find out) reluctance to speak much English. We’d speak at most 10 to 15 minutes before I became sufficiently frustrated to end the call. What did come through, by her failure to address her long absence, was that she was unapologetic. Damn I expected a “lo siento no te llamar” or “yo eras muy stupido”. What I got was smug attitude and a silently expressed conviction that I was to simply take her back with no questions asked and no apology expected. Pissed off I did not talk to her for three weeks. I then received an email where she spoke of her unhappiness and how difficult it was being a single mother without resources. We started communicating again and just as I feared I volunteered to help her with the baby and her life by providing 4,000 pesos a month until she could find a job. I know many of you are thinking I’m stupid which depending on your perspective just might be true. The way I see it I’m the father of two sons who I took everywhere with me from before they were able to walk. I’m also a man who was raised in a single parent household who has known and still knows too many single mothers. I truly understand the travails and frustrations of raising children on your own. Also I have a weakness and fondness for babies.

So here I am sending her cash and I’ve not even seen her. I come down as I’ve done now for 3 years to vacation during Samana Santa. I go to POP to the house of her sister where she is staying. I am prepared for the worst, but am pleasantly surprised though she is still carrying much more culo that she had before she is not much worse for wear. The baby was born naturally so she has escaped the trademark nasty Dominican cesarean scar. The breasts no longer stand at attention, but at least they don’t hang. All in all she’s come through the pregnancy pretty much unaffected. We spend two days together and the old sexual magic is alive and well. However, the distraction of having to find a sitter, the need to head home early for the baby, the fact that I have major trust issues with this woman, and the arrival of La Jovenita results in our spending limited time together. I basically abandon her about the third day of my stay and leave 6 days later without saying goodbye. When I talk to her after getting home she makes me feel like the heel I some time can be. Guilt has a way of forcing you to empathize. Forces you to address the fact you aren’t an innocent bystander. I decide to forgive her for her transgressions and start anew, however since contrary to what some of you my have concluded, I’m not stupid I vow to erect an emotional barrier to safe me from falling into the abyss.

To be honest even with our relatively long history together the current wife was running second, for the honor of holding the title this trip, to La Jovenita, until she miraculously developed the ability to speak English three weeks ago. We start that day’s conversation with me struggling with my bad Spanish and suddenly she starts speaking English. This goes on for 15 fucking minutes. I wanted to strangle her ass. Now that I could actually understand her we started to become closer. That and an uncharacteristic slip up by La Jovenita sealed the deal.

I know for certain my relationship with her will end badly. Either she will find another or I will. For now I trust her as far as I can throw her yet I thoroughly enjoy her company. I often suggest to her that she find some local guy to marry and that I don’t believe her when she says she cares about me (which I don’t). None-the-less one thing I know for certain is when she is gone I will always remember her fondly.

Geez, this is worst than I thought.
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Re: Some may consider this simp talk
« Reply #41 on: October 05, 2018, 05:32:20 PM »
@jazzy they might troll you to death bro ..but that was keeping it 100 ...and I Salute that ...you jai no problem telling us what went down not alot of men on here has the balls to do that

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Re: Some may consider this simp talk
« Reply #42 on: October 05, 2018, 05:43:08 PM »
Jazzy that story was amazing bro. It takes courage to post the truth. A lot of guys ACT like they never fell for a chica. They say they never sent WU. They say they NEVER thought about moving a chica to the states or moving to sosua. It’s all lies though. Some of these women can get to the heart of even the most jaded cold hearted guy.
This board could be amazing if guys would be honest and also if people wouldn’t ridicule guys who made “rookie” mistakes. The lessons that we learn from each other’s REAL experiences could be invaluable.

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Re: Some may consider this simp talk
« Reply #43 on: October 05, 2018, 06:43:48 PM »
Jazzy: That's what I'm talking about, some insight in finding and keeping love from a Dominicana. I'm going through some similar things with my Dominicana as Jazzy have, her wanting to be alone, and not be living under someone else's roof. And her wanting  me having to pay for her a new apartment, then everything else included with that new apartment somewhere in Santo Domingo, plus Wi-fi!

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Re: Some may consider this simp talk
« Reply #44 on: October 05, 2018, 06:51:04 PM »
Jazzy: That's what I'm talking about, some insight in finding and keeping love from a Dominicana. I'm going through some similar things with my Dominicana as Jazzy have, her wanting to be alone, and not be living under someone else's roof. And her wanting  me having to pay for her a new apartment, then everything else included with that new apartment somewhere in Santo Domingo, plus Wi-fi!

Look my guy, sometimes “not necessarily ur case” when chicas asked thier gringo novio to move alone a way from her family is bc she want to be free doing whatever without anybody telling u a thing “if u become cool with her family, they might tell u or warn her on her behavior” aka superving her, so she wants to be able to do whatever with her domincanos lol

I said it in my last TR when I talked about relationships with dominicanas, if u ain’t there on a monthly bases like I am or not stationed there often,,, my guy she is cheating on u lol, no ifs or buts

I am on the island on a monthly bases and I keep 2 solid wanna-bees novias in my stable “I said wanna-bees bc that’s how they look at it, I am just playing em 🤣 aka fuck that high-moral-ethics my guy 😎”  and I am aware of the culture so it works for me,,,,,,

Other than that, shyt won’t work and I hate to bring the bad news to y’all 🤷🏻‍♂️😅

 


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