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Author Topic: TWO of My DR Proteges Are Falling in Love With Chicas. Where Did I Go Wrong?  (Read 810 times)

FuenteFuente

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OK, time for FuenteFuente to practice tough love. Two of my mentees have gone off the deep end, and they are both on this board. So this is a dose of tough love, my young brothers, just as we discussed over the phone: Stop it.

The two dudes I am mentoring and teaching are in their 30s and dating dime pieces in the Su and Puerta Plata. I told them my feelings over the phone but re-posting it here so they can see it again.

The Sosua life is a fantasy for American men. That shit ain't real. Don't catch feelings for these chicas and get all hurt when you find out she also has ongoing relationships with other American dudes your age. This is what they do and you are not going to be able to change that.

The Su reminds me of when I was a young brotha and dated a chick in the projects. I was very young, early twenties, and she was in her thirties and already hardened. I showed up one night at her door with a brown paper bag -- some liquor, food, snacks, etc.

I had a nice time with her that night, but to this day I will never forget how the date ended. After we had enjoyed our time together she told me it was time for me to go because she had to get up in the morning for work. I protested but she insisted.

Finally I have her a kiss and a hug, and groped that pussy and ass one more time. She smiled and started walking me to the door.

Just as we approached the door there was a knock.

I opened the door. What I saw shocked me.

There was another brother there. And he had a brown paper bag just like mine.

Kiss my ass.

That was when I learned how some of these broads play. Fast forward to today, many years later. I know this sounds harsh, and it is. But I treat the DR like golf. When I want to play golf, I take my clubs out of the trunk of my car and go play.

After I play, I put the clubs back into the trunk, and that's the end of that. No love, no emotion, no nothing. Just golf.

When I am back from the Dominican Republic, I toss my DR burner into my gadget box and let the battery die. No texting, no Whatsapps, no emails -- no nothing.

I know, sounds cold as fuck, but it is what it is. I know dudes of all ages who go to Sosua and lose their fucking minds. I try to remind everyone: Don't be that dude. You're not moving to the DR, and she's not coming to the states, so let's just keep it real, OK?

Just remember before you start sending those Western Union payments: You are not the only dude who is tapping that. And that's for real!

Sincerely, my young brothers,

FuenteFuente





« Last Edit: June 11, 2019, 04:13:07 PM by FuenteFuente »
Women need a reason to have sex. Men just need a place. Sosua will do just fine.

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Nice....soft and firm...lol
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Dont forget they are still women and they will act like any other woman, they have a motivation to treat you good, the almighty dollar...its a fastasy keep it that way!!!!

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Nice....soft and firm...lol

No... He is cold.

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"When I am back from the Dominican Republic, I toss my DR burner into my gadget box and let the battery die. No texting, no Whatsapps, no emails -- no nothing."

Best policy, @FuenteFuente and sound advice to anyone, but I ignored the sound advice for awhile. Sometimes you just have to work through this shit yourself before you get clarity.

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I try to judge others and myself with the same judgment.
Not everything is neat and or probable. Things have to lie the way they fall. That's life. ...but@FF call your chica and tell her to ring me...I love BBWs! I think she was too nervous with me...
...I'm usually wrong...but that sh!t was great!

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In my experience if you got a heart and are not currently involved you run a high risk of getting attached. I think in some ways cats always bad mouthing the chicks contributes to this. Guys have heard so many bad things about dominicanas that when they find one that treats them right they think they found a unicorn. The truth is that Dominicanas in general are some of the sweetest women you’ll meet in your life, especially if you like your woman with an edge.

My advice is don’t let yourself fall for a worker unless you caught her on her first tour of duty. Once they get used to that money they’re ruined until they willingly, without your help, give up the life. With a normal type girl I strongly suggest that a guy not overpromise. Don’t sell her a dream and not deliver. If you choose to assist her make sure not to leave her high and dry. There‘s a way to leave without being a clod. Too often girls are left to pick up the pieces. Contrary to popular opinion it’s usually the guy that fucks over a chick and not the other way around. A dominicana could love a rock if it was paying the bills and getting her off.
« Last Edit: June 11, 2019, 04:38:38 PM by Jazzy2002 »

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Where do these chicas fall on the pro-semipro-nonpro spectrum?

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Where do these chicas fall on the pro-semipro-nonpro spectrum?

The semipros are usually chicas who would rather be married with a husband, but because they aren't they'll turn tricks for money. They may fuck locals, Americans, or both. In that respect they are not much different than American women trying to make ends meet.

Like American women, they would much rather have a full-time boyfriend or husband, and not have to sell sex to make ends meet.

There are fulltime chicas who are more hardened. They sell pussy because it is easy. The average monthly salary for an unskilled Dominican worker is around 10,000 pesos a month.

Think about that: That's $195.81 US a month. A dime piece in Sosua can make that in two or three days in Sosua, including her expenses.

The most sophisticated chicas work Sosua on the weekends but maintain monthly Western Union relationships with their American novios. They are raking serious bank by Dominican standards, as their guys back in the states send money just about every month.

If they are receiving payments from two or three dudes a month, then just do the math -- they are living large without having to do all that much fucking.

Don't get me wrong: there are good women in the DR. MOST of the semi-pros would rather not having to trick at all. But it is what it is.

Just don't get sucked into it.

« Last Edit: June 11, 2019, 04:53:32 PM by FuenteFuente »
Women need a reason to have sex. Men just need a place. Sosua will do just fine.

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So these guys you’re mentoring, did they meet these chicas in a blatant p4p situation, or was it more a regular dating thing?

Do you think these chicas are totally playing them? Or is there at least a little bit of legitimacy/plausibility  to it?

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So these guys you’re mentoring, did they meet these chicas in a blatant p4p situation, or was it more a regular dating thing?

Do you think these chicas are totally playing them? Or is there at least a little bit of legitimacy/plausibility  to it?

Do I think all the chicas are playing them? Not really. I think deep down all the chicas in Sosua would love to have traditional relationships with a husband and father who could provide for them in a good way.

But to answer your question, both my guys met their chicas at Classicos when they were soliciting men for prostiution. That doesn't make them bad persons. What's important is whether they would give up that lifestyle if the right loving, husband and father came into their lives. Some will, some won't.

If you are dating a sex worker, then that is not necessarily a bad thing. You should not automatically give up on her. You should not resist falling in love -- as long as you are confident that she will give up that life to love you exclusively.
Women need a reason to have sex. Men just need a place. Sosua will do just fine.

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The problem with established workers is that they usually already have favorites. I’ve had a of regulars that got involved during our period of intimacy and it didn’t deter them from continuing to have sex with me. I’ve been that guy lying there listening to that broken English novio conversation a multitude of times.

I have nothing against getting involved with a regular type dominicana provided a guy understands the difficulty and responsibility of a LD relationship with a woman who doesn’t have much economic power. Shit, I started visiting that island at 48. Thought I was done with giddy romantic type love. Boy was I wrong. It was a reawakening for me. That’s way I can’t clown a guy who wants to give it a try. Just understand that it’s not a true panacea, but it might help you to get where you need to be.
« Last Edit: June 11, 2019, 07:07:16 PM by Jazzy2002 »

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I personally been to Sosua for over 10 Years and I can say I personally never fell in love with these Chicas.

Unlike most guys in the Mongering Game. I always keep it real with my self and understand that these women are prostitutes and at the end of the day they are selling you a dream, to see how much more money they can extract from you.

I know most American guys are use to women treating them like shit, both everyday Regular Women and if they are dealing with Working Girls (Escorts) from the USA,

So when they meet a nice Dominican Chica, They feel like these girls really like them and are into them. But 99% of time is all comes down to money or they can play the long game on getting a green card.

My Advice too anybody that wants to be in relationship with a Chica in DR is to number #1. Stop fucking with bitches in Sosua that sell pussy.

Learn Spanish, and hit up nightclubs with Normal everyday Chicas, Hit up some Clubs in Santiago. You will find a lot of regular hard working chicks (lawyers, accountants) that are looking for real relationship.

Also stop using money and sending money and thinking these girls like you. You have to put these chicas to test. See how they act when you do not offer money or send them western union money. Understand that if a girl really likes you and is into you. You do not have to send money. A lot of these Chicas have Dominican Boyfriends, most of them are jobless and flat broke. All that western union money you guys are sending, Most of them use that to take care of there broke Dominican boyfriend.? Why? because they love them.

When a women loves you. You do not have to offer her shit.

Just like friends. You know who your real friends are when your broke and hit rock bottom.

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I personally been to Sosua for over 10 Years and I can say I personally never fell in love with these Chicas.

Unlike most guys in the Mongering Game. I always keep it real with my self and understand that these women are prostitutes and at the end of the day they are selling you a dream, to see how much more money they can extract from you.

I know most American guys are use to women treating them like shit, both everyday Regular Women and if they are dealing with Working Girls (Escorts) from the USA,

So when they meet a nice Dominican Chica, They feel like these girls really like them and are into them. But 99% of time is all comes down to money or they can play the long game on getting a green card.

My Advice too anybody that wants to be in relationship with a Chica in DR is to number #1. Stop fucking with bitches in Sosua that sell pussy.

Learn Spanish, and hit up nightclubs with Normal everyday Chicas, Hit up some Clubs in Santiago. You will find a lot of regular hard working chicks (lawyers, accountants) that are looking for real relationship.

Also stop using money and sending money and thinking these girls like you. You have to put these chicas to test. See how they act when you do not offer money or send them western union money. Understand that if a girl really likes you and is into you. You do not have to send money. A lot of these Chicas have Dominican Boyfriends, most of them are jobless and flat broke. All that western union money you guys are sending, Most of them use that to take care of there broke Dominican boyfriend.? Why? because they love them.

When a women loves you. You do not have to offer her shit.

Just like friends. You know who your real friends are when your broke and hit rock bottom.

..and you know it's real talk when it feels like he's talking about you...and yo feelings feel hurt.
...I'm usually wrong...but that sh!t was great!

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Where do these chicas fall on the pro-semipro-nonpro spectrum?

The semipros are usually chicas who would rather be married with a husband, but because they aren't they'll turn tricks for money. They may fuck locals, Americans, or both. In that respect they are not much different than American women trying to make ends meet.

Like American women, they would much rather have a full-time boyfriend or husband, and not have to sell sex to make ends meet.

There are fulltime chicas who are more hardened. They sell pussy because it is easy. The average monthly salary for an unskilled Dominican worker is around 10,000 pesos a month.

Think about that: That's $195.81 US a month. A dime piece in Sosua can make that in two or three days in Sosua, including her expenses.

The most sophisticated chicas work Sosua on the weekends but maintain monthly Western Union relationships with their American novios. They are raking serious bank by Dominican standards, as their guys back in the states send money just about every month.

If they are receiving payments from two or three dudes a month, then just do the math -- they are living large without having to do all that much fucking.

Don't get me wrong: there are good women in the DR. MOST of the semi-pros would rather not having to trick at all. But it is what it is.

Just don't get sucked into it.
Sir Well said, spot on i have some repeat chicas that do that they will have a few american novios in rotation,, they get monthly allowances they may not be on the stroll 24/7 but line up a few mongers that send them money,,, also dont get too attached to these chicas unless your going to be there full time then mabey make them your regular , i had a repeat hatian chica caught feelings for her was sending some money, was going to see her next week, last month she took ill, went down hill, passed away last weekend, lesson learned !

 


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