I also did my first monger trip after 30 YR marriage (15yrs ago). I f--ked up the first couple of trips, falling in lust!!! The normal shit that happens when a 50+ man meets 20yr.old chica, the only head that's thinking is the little one. I was lucky, it was before the age of smart phones, when I went home it was over.Now chicas will text you for money all the time, just say NO, SORRY and leave it at that, no reason needed.They will move on to the next simp that will send money. She will see you in a heart beat when you land, your a pay day!!!