Things to keep an eye out for

[LL120613]

Vetting. What are some of the red flags to keep an eye out for when you're having drinks and getting to know them?

[tugboaboat5393]

Ah Step into my office Sir.!
Rushing if your trying to relax,and chill.
bad hygene or foul odors
Quoteing you in USA dollars, automitic no go
exsteamly drunk, high or tweaky,meaning high on something more than weed
too aggresive in grabbing at you, grabing your dick shoving a your hand up there snatch( not a bad thing you can do the sniff test) whipping a tit out, other crazy stuff,
quoteing an exstream high price or does not agree to type of services rendered or upsell for services other than standard covered full service such as rimming daty reveres cow girl sodomy anal, golden showers facials swallowing creampies,,, they may charge extra for spanking chokeing shitting suffication ,,,,as always if you do have a first first session second and thirds sessions you can get chica to let her hair down, meaning could turn into a freaky slut porn star,, best of luck !

[PoonTangClan]

Vetting. What are some of the red flags to keep an eye out for when you're having drinks and getting to know them?

Eye Contact

If the chica can’t keep her eyes on you and she’s constantly scanning the room/area, fixated on her phone, or looking at other dudes, she’s not that into you.

Physical Touch

If the chica is trying to grab on your crotch or show off her assets to you through her clothes in public, etc., this is typically a red flag that she’s just putting on a show to get into your room and pocket as quickly as possible for a rushed and mechanical business-type smash session that you’re not gonna enjoy.

Money Talk

If the chica is talking to you about payment in USD, she more than likely has intention to overcharge or even up-charge you once she gets back to your room, however, if you speak absolutely no Spanish at all, there’s a chance that she just might be trying to help you understand the communication a little better.

Food/Drink Orders

If the chica starts ordering items for herself without first seeking your permission or approval, in many instances, the chica might try to overcharge you, or bait & switch on the price once she gets back to your room. A chica trying to order anything without your express permission or approval feels entitled to your money, and won’t hesitate to try and make you forcefully part with it through deceptive or deceitful measures later. Also be wary of any chica that orders drinks or items unreasonably more expensive than your own. It’s an early sign that they want to treat you like an ATM.

Happy Hour Talk

If you’re negotiating with a chica for a one-on-one session and she’s adamant about having her friend join you for a threesome happy hour, beware. The chica’s friend isn’t doing a lot of business and/or her friend is new to the game, and their objective might be to give you a lazy and/or underwhelming happy hour for a quick buck.

Children & TLN

Be wary of any chica offering to stay overnight if you happen to discover during your conversation that she has very young children at home. This chica will either make an excuse to leave before the night is over, or have to leave very early in the morning when you would normally still be sleeping.

Chica Departure Times

If a chica reveals that she’s leaving town soon to go back home, you might not get the best smash session, as that can be seen as her just trying to rack up as much business as she can before she leaves town. You might experience a rushed session.

Language

If your chica speaks very good english, expect to be overcharged.

Negotiations

If it’s taking too long for you and your chica to agree on a reasonable rate, chances are that you’re not going to have a good session later as she will constantly seek ways to “hold back” in the bedroom in order to make sure that you’re not getting over on her price-wise.

[Mr Back Shot]

This guy PTC just laid it out for you and saved you a bunch of time  !

[LL120613]

Thanks all for the helpful advice.

TLN: Not partaking in this. One, only there for very limited nights. Two, even if staying for several days to weeks, TLN is just really not my thing.

Overly-touching and alcohol consumption level: Already low-key as it is so definitely looking for the more discrete ones and prefer those who limit their drinks. A person who doesn't know their alcohol tolerance is not someone I want to associate with.

Happy Hour: Since the consensus here is that this is almost never a good time, I'lll not even entertain this idea.

Eye-contact (or lack thereof): This is a great advice and something that that would have not thought about.

Ordering Food and drinks: Still pretty not clear on the right approach here. Do you ask what the person is open to partake before ordering drinks? My concern is paying for a few drinks only to find out the conversation is going nowhere and repeating the same thing with the next person. So what is the best approach to limit buying drinks with dead-end conversations?

[Hobby]

Thanks all for the helpful advice.

TLN: Not partaking in this. One, only there for very limited nights. Two, even if staying for several days to weeks, TLN is just really not my thing.

Overly-touching and alcohol consumption level: Already low-key as it is so definitely looking for the more discrete ones and prefer those who limit their drinks. A person who doesn't know their alcohol tolerance is not someone I want to associate with.

Happy Hour: Since the consensus here is that this is almost never a good time, I'lll not even entertain this idea.

Eye-contact (or lack thereof): This is a great advice and something that that would have not thought about.

Ordering Food and drinks: Still pretty not clear on the right approach here. Do you ask what the person is open to partake before ordering drinks? My concern is paying for a few drinks only to find out the conversation is going nowhere and repeating the same thing with the next person. So what is the best approach to limit buying drinks with dead-end conversations?

I always take my time before buying a chica drinks.  Usually I don't do it but if there is a really good vibe then I'll buy her a drink.  Never when first meeting.  Some chicas when you first meet will ask for a drink.  Just like the old drug prevention commercials "Just say no".  I'll wait after some time and if the conversation is good and it seems we vibe then I'll consider buying her a drink.  Obviously knowing a little Spanish is helpful. Basically don't start off by saying "hay, can I buy you a drink".  Only offer after feeling some sort of vibe do I sometimes offer a drink and even then nothing is a guarantee of superior service. 

Hobby

[PoonTangClan]

Ordering Food and drinks: Still pretty not clear on the right approach here. Do you ask what the person is open to partake before ordering drinks? My concern is paying for a few drinks only to find out the conversation is going nowhere and repeating the same thing with the next person. So what is the best approach to limit buying drinks with dead-end conversations?

Don’t start off by offering any and all chicas drinks. It’s perfectly okay to call a chica over and start a brief conversation without a purchase.

If you find the chica to be initially engaging and agreeable, then you might invite her to sit down and chat with you a little longer. If it feels like things might possibly go in the right direction or you really fancy her, offer to buy her the same drink that you’re drinking or something similar (if you really want to control the situation).

The best approach to limit drink purchases and dead-end convos is to just get the chica’s number and hit her up a little later with some text message conversation and inquiries. You don’t always have to engage at a bar or any other place that could cause you to inadvertently spend.

[LL120613]

Thanks. I think that is the best approach in my view.

[sosuasosua]

Be careful when buying drinks if you're not feeling them after the drink. Sometimes they look to shake dudes down to pay for their so called time. Keep it short or just get the number. And then start texting them or FaceTime. You can vibe somewhat from that.Dont over think it just go with the flow.

[TonyT]

Happy Hours can be GREAT if you already have a good relationship with the chica.  Let them know exactly what you want and how you want it so there is no let down.  They probably wont do any lesbo stuff but they will take care of you if you are clear on your expectations.  If she is bringing a newbe or underworking friend, she should give her the heads up on what you like and dont like.

I've had 4 Happy Hours and they have all been phe-nom-enal!!

[TravelYoda]

Vetting. What are some of the red flags to keep an eye out for when you're having drinks and getting to know them?

1. Attitude/snide remarks. She'll try to mask it as sarcasm, but its just good old fashion attitude.
2. Can't hold a conversation/not trying as hard as you to create conversation. I don't need her to be Diane Sawyer, but the effort in making me feel comfortable almost always translate into the effort shown in the bed.
3. If she says she doesn't drink. She drinks, she just doesn't drink with you. Usually translate to her trying to get in and out.
4. Starts early on rubbing. Hand on leg/arm cool. grabbing penis or the "wax-on wax-off rub," guaranteed terrible.

[Ted68]

Thanks all for the helpful advice.

TLN: Not partaking in this. One, only there for very limited nights. Two, even if staying for several days to weeks, TLN is just really not my thing.

Overly-touching and alcohol consumption level: Already low-key as it is so definitely looking for the more discrete ones and prefer those who limit their drinks. A person who doesn't know their alcohol tolerance is not someone I want to associate with.

Happy Hour: Since the consensus here is that this is almost never a good time, I'lll not even entertain this idea.

Eye-contact (or lack thereof): This is a great advice and something that that would have not thought about.

Ordering Food and drinks: Still pretty not clear on the right approach here. Do you ask what the person is open to partake before ordering drinks? My concern is paying for a few drinks only to find out the conversation is going nowhere and repeating the same thing with the next person. So what is the best approach to limit buying drinks with dead-end conversations?

Great advice given, especially PTC..those were gems..but wanted to add that be very careful with food and drinks with the chicas. Tell the server that you are only paying for your items only and if you agree with buying her a beer or two, that's fine. Also Some like inviting their "friends" over and next thing you know they are ordering all kinds of stuff and they have no intentions of paying out of their own pockets, then you are stuck. Get a small table to help alleviate that as well. And yes if you have to go to the bathroom take your drink with you. Additionally enjoy but don't overconsume to the point your own judgement is clouded.

Plus, any chica in a mad rush to get with you and into your room is going either give subpar service and or try to steal something. If you go back after agreeing, keep your wallet and phone under your control. Better yet throw your stuff in the safe while she's in the bathroom.

The biggest thing is if you aren't feeling her from the jump, move on. Listen to your inner voice. Better to pass up then wind up in a situation that's inescapable where you will end up with the police called or worse. There's plenty around and let them know that they aren't the only game in town.

Good luck bro

[murano2010]

Love the content shared.  Dont know how I missed this thread.   

The thing about vetting through common social behavior, is that it's challenging to have a one size fits all approach to fit every chica you encounter.

Sure, enough of us might say we never initiate buying drinks for p4p chicas.  But has that been true 100% of the time, and is that even practical to never buy any p4p chicas a drink when you are vetting them?   

IMO if a chica I stop to talk to, or stops me to talk to me, can pass my initial on the fly vetting, my decision to have her sit with me, is because I have considered her as a high probability that I want to smash her.   Not just invite chicks to talk, but because I see them as smash potential right then and there. 

Inviting chicks ( strangers ) to sit down when you are not really interested, I wouldnt recommend.   Because what happens after you and the chick realize she isnt getting hired?   Any drinks bought for a chick wont mean shit.  Even if you bought her top shelf booze.  Also if she has been drinking, you dont know how she might react once she realizes the guy isnt interested in taking her.   She just might get very emotional and loud, even violent. 

Enough chicks are going to feel a certain way, if some guy is wasting their time by vetting them, but not hiring them.  It's best to only invite chicks to sit with you ( offering drinks is optional ),  when you have a very high interest in them.  Better if you may have already decided that you are going to hire them.   

Such as what happens when you have observed a particular chick for a while.  And when you finally bump into her, the impulse to pull her happens at that moment.   Having her sit, to vet further may be a practical move to make.   One can also pay attention to how a chick handles herself when offered a drink.   

Things to look out for :   If you offer a chick something specific, does she try to change it to something else?   Does she show any sign of appreciation for the kind gesture?  Or complete indifference?   

How does she drink?   Does she nurse a drink like a lady or does she guzzle it down and looking for the next drink?   Does she drink half of her cervezas, and then look to you to buy her another one?   If you sit with a chick at her table, does she try to get you to pay for her drink that she already ordered, and is drinking?   

Always pay attention to the minor details when vetting and observing a chicas behavior in your company.   Taking note, that sometimes drinking can lower ones ability to recognize certain things/red flags as well as make one miss important red flags they would have noticed if they were sober.         

[murano2010]

PTC touched on this.  I just wanted to expound on this a little. 

Chicks you stop, that tell you that they are leaving soon to go back home.   This usually happens when a guy is out and about in flirt mode.  Taking numbers.   He runs across a chica he may be interested in, but she can see the guy is unsure of when he may hire her.   So the chica tries to give him an incentive.  She will say it in Spanish of course.  "Me go home to Santo Domingo tonight ( or very early in the morning )" 

About 70% of the time chicas be lying to a guy about them leaving that night or the next day.   They're usually just trying to get the guy to make a quick decision to hire them before he gives his "donation" to her competition.

Just about any guy that has mongered long enough has had chicas do that.  It usually ends up with guys seeing the chicks later that night, the next day or every day.   Thats when a guy realizes that a chick claiming she has to leave, is just a ploy.   

One quick way to tell if a chica may be lying about going back home to some where far, is if she is telling a guy that she is leaving on a Thursday, Friday, Saturday and even a Sunday.   Those are prime time working days for a Sosua hoe that lives far away.

A chick claiming to be leaving on a Monday or a Tuesday is a little more believable.  Or if a major holiday is coming up where they would be expected to be home with family.     Even then, I still dont believe 95% of whatever is coming out of their mouths. 

[stinqu]

Happy Hours can be GREAT if you already have a good relationship with the chica.  Let them know exactly what you want and how you want it so there is no let down.  They probably wont do any lesbo stuff but they will take care of you if you are clear on your expectations.  If she is bringing a newbe or underworking friend, she should give her the heads up on what you like and dont like.

I've had 4 Happy Hours and they have all been phe-nom-enal!!
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I guess I had what could be called a happy hour. My regular was staying with me and a school friend of hers was in town from Monte Criste, it was a studio so my GF slept in the middle, we partied till 2 but I was in the shower by 7ish, her friend heard the water running an had to pee,next thing were f**king in the shower. No I did not pay, she was just horny, never happened again, she is married to a guy I would not f**k with.