Finding Travel Buddies?

[ElCaballeroGuapo]

Is it common to go with other people? Or is it easy to meet other adventurers there? I have never been or done this kind of thing. It would be nice to have someone who could show me the ropes.

[sosuajefe]

Go on your own and meet people there. I couldn't imagine seeking some kind of travel buddy who ends up pissing you off and ruining your vacation being stuck with them.

[Coochie93]

Go on your own and meet people there. I couldn't imagine seeking some kind of travel buddy who ends up pissing you off and ruining our vacation being stuck with them.

this is the way, unless the person you are traveling with has the same mindset. I met some people who gave me advice, guided me around and invited me to a party at a villa. I could cut lose whenever I wanted.

[PoonTangClan]

Is it common to go with other people? Or is it easy to meet other adventurers there? I have never been or done this kind of thing. It would be nice to have someone who could show me the ropes.

Be mindful of “travel buddies” and acquiring new ones.

You have to understand that mongering attracts a certain subset of the population that don’t always monger for recreational purposes, but because they HAVE to, or they wouldn’t see pussy any other way, due to lingering or existing issues they have with civilian non-pro women, stateside.

I’m talking about domestic abusers, pedophiles, low-key rapists, ex-cons, dudes with chronic sexual diseases, emotional problems, and straight up squares who have never been with non-pro women.

These aren’t the guys you want to find yourself chilling with, because they move funny, and could totally f--k up your trip or get you into sticky situations you could’ve avoided with chicas, like those infamous boat or house parties that go to shit, because dumb or scamming dudes don’t want to pay the chicas, etc. 

Vet who you decide to chill with, and make sure whoever it is, is positively like-minded.

 

[Jazzy2019]

Is it common to go with other people? Or is it easy to meet other adventurers there? I have never been or done this kind of thing. It would be nice to have someone who could show me the ropes.

Be mindful of “travel buddies” and acquiring new ones.

You have to understand that mongering attracts a certain subset of the population that don’t always monger for recreational purposes, but because they HAVE to, or they wouldn’t see pussy any other way, due to lingering or existing issues they have with civilian non-pro women, stateside.

I’m talking about domestic abusers, pedophiles, low-key rapists, ex-cons, dudes with chronic sexual diseases, emotional problems, and straight up squares who have never been with non-pro women.

These aren’t the guys you want to find yourself chilling with, because they move funny, and could totally f--k up your trip or get you into sticky situations you could’ve avoided with chicas, like those infamous boat or house parties that go to shit, because dumb or scamming dudes don’t want to pay the chicas, etc. 

Vet who you decide to chill with, and make sure whoever it is, is positively like-minded.

If Papi-Viejo was still around he’d be going nuclear on your ass right about now. 🤣🤣🤣 For whatever the reason it ain’t easy finding a good wing. Definitely isn’t a search you’d want to conduct indiscriminately or just be thrown into.

[tugboaboat5393]

Best bet is to study this forum, get all your ducks in a row, once you hit the ground stop by an expat  or sexpat bar intoduce your self, chop it up with a few guys glean some info and tips, beware of any Donimican  haitain guides, that  will be looking to be compesated, have fun !

[PoonTangClan]

Is it common to go with other people? Or is it easy to meet other adventurers there? I have never been or done this kind of thing. It would be nice to have someone who could show me the ropes.

Be mindful of “travel buddies” and acquiring new ones.

You have to understand that mongering attracts a certain subset of the population that don’t always monger for recreational purposes, but because they HAVE to, or they wouldn’t see pussy any other way, due to lingering or existing issues they have with civilian non-pro women, stateside.

I’m talking about domestic abusers, pedophiles, low-key rapists, ex-cons, dudes with chronic sexual diseases, emotional problems, and straight up squares who have never been with non-pro women.

These aren’t the guys you want to find yourself chilling with, because they move funny, and could totally f--k up your trip or get you into sticky situations you could’ve avoided with chicas, like those infamous boat or house parties that go to shit, because dumb or scamming dudes don’t want to pay the chicas, etc. 

Vet who you decide to chill with, and make sure whoever it is, is positively like-minded.

If Papi-Viejo was still around he’d be going nuclear on your ass right about now. 🤣🤣🤣 For whatever the reason it ain’t easy finding a good wing. Definitely isn’t a search you’d want to conduct indiscriminately or just be thrown into.

😆😆😆

[WT3]

If you stay at the popular mongering hotel you will me other dudes who will show you the ropes it's easy biggest issue for you is just showing up.

[murano2010]

Is it common to go with other people? Or is it easy to meet other adventurers there? I have never been or done this kind of thing. It would be nice to have someone who could show me the ropes.

A lot depends on what you bring to the game, what you already know and what you specifically dont know.  I have met dozens of guys that came to Sosua solo.  Their overall vacation experience varied from person to person.   

The advantage of having a travel companion, even a newbie, is having someone else with you to compare notes with.  And someone looking out for you, and you for them.  My very 1st visit, I came with a close friend.  Both of us had never been to Sosua before.   I was the one who had learned a lot from forums like this, and from some of my ex co workers.

I applied everything I absorbed to my 1st visit.  And even with that, I still had my shortcomings with things I wasnt prepared for.  Boots on the ground is one of the best ways to learn and to find out how things work.  You can do that solo, or with a wingman.

If a person is able and willing to communicate with strangers ( especially vets and ex pats ) who also are there for the same thing, a lot of information from them can help one navigate, maybe avoid critical mistakes.

Another thing I have experienced/observed.  Seeing guys taking in advice and information, being thankful for it.  But doing whatever the hell they want anyway.  Usually ending up with having a plethora of mistakes under their belts that could have been avoided.   

[Bruno]

i went alone and met two guys that i hung with the whole time. but had our own space.

[2Up]

Is it common to go with other people? Or is it easy to meet other adventurers there? I have never been or done this kind of thing. It would be nice to have someone who could show me the ropes.

Be mindful of “travel buddies” and acquiring new ones.

You have to understand that mongering attracts a certain subset of the population that don’t always monger for recreational purposes, but because they HAVE to, or they wouldn’t see pussy any other way, due to lingering or existing issues they have with civilian non-pro women, stateside.

I’m talking about domestic abusers, pedophiles, low-key rapists, ex-cons, dudes with chronic sexual diseases, emotional problems, and straight up squares who have never been with non-pro women.

These aren’t the guys you want to find yourself chilling with, because they move funny, and could totally f--k up your trip or get you into sticky situations you could’ve avoided with chicas, like those infamous boat or house parties that go to shit, because dumb or scamming dudes don’t want to pay the chicas, etc. 

Vet who you decide to chill with, and make sure whoever it is, is positively like-minded.

Solid advice.  First trip travelled solo.  Out of the few travellers I met only one ended up being a good friend.  The rest all had issues / wouldn’t travel with or chill with again because of how they move. 

[justin_credible]

I met a good buddy in the Su and we both traveled to Colombia together. The trip we made was a success, and it's always nice to have a buddy watching your back. It makes things a lot more fun too, as long as you're not sharing rooms and you have your own personal space and are out to achieve the same goals. That's one of the huge advantages of the Su is the brothership that exists is hard to find in other destinations and there are multiple connections I still keep in contact with months after I left.

First trip should always be solo IMO. Heck, maybe even the first couple of trips so you figure out how to move and figure out what makes you tick without any biases from your friends from home. Be open to meeting people, but make sure you have some time to yourself.

[TonyT]

Be VERY careful who you befriend.  There are all types of shady MFs in the SU.  It's like being at a retirement resort for pirates.  Especially the european expats....they all look like extras from the Pirates of the Caribbean.      

[ToToMarauder]

i have to agree with the above statements. this craft is not for everybody. I am not going to sit there and attempt to explain or break down the game for you.. now way. . my preferred method of traveling has always been SOLO. having a unfit company may present conflict of interest