My advice to young, successful, single dudes now? Create complete control over when you want to become a father. That means making deposits into a sperm bank and then having a vasectomy. I mean, if I am Zion Williamson, I'm going the vasectomy/sperm bank route immediately. In another life I was around a lot of NBA players, and I remember one of them telling me how he had a one-night stand with a chick on the road. He said he had sex with one chick and after ejaculating he pulled the condom off and foolishly left it in the bed as he went to take a piss.
When dude finished in the bathroom he went back to the bed and the chic had the condom in her hands and was squeezing his ejaculate into her vagina.
True story.
So why do women do this? For money via child support payments, of course. I read recently that the average, beginning child support payment for an NFL player is $3,000 a month. I'd wager for an NBA player it is $5,000 a month. Think about that for a minute. Five grand a month for 18 years times two or three kids. SMH.