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murano2010

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DOES A PROSTITUTE HAVE ANY RESPONSIBILITY IN THE GAME?
« on: November 06, 2020, 07:57:41 AM »
I spent a little time reading the Bum Bitches thread.  I thought I had visited and commented in that thread, but I guess I didnt.  Didnt want to fuck up the real purpose of the thread, which was to post Bum Bitches content.   Best to let that theme continue, and post my thoughts here.

In the Bum Bitches thread, there is some comments in there that give one the impression, that for a monger to have a good time with a chick,  it's the mongers responsibility to vet a chica, not only see if there is a vibe, but it's also his responsibility to set the vibe so a prostitute hoe somehow gets this fuzzy feeling that she is being treated with respect,  just so her pussy juices starts secreting from every orifice. 

Her survival and choice to use prostitution as her source of securing income, is somehow a mongers responsibility,  in making this hoe feel up to doing the job she herself signed up for.   As if the ability to support her children , older family members and any other lazy fuck she knows aint enough incentive to at least put in the best effort they can,  towards a satisfied customer, repeat business and/or referrals. 

But no.  For some reason, some cats got this thing twisted.  When they talk about the mongers role.   The dude should be fit.  Be clean, well groomed, breath on point, supposed to spend his money to a prostitutes satisfaction ( which includes buying her and her friends drinks because it only costs a few dollars ).    And if you dont do that, you are considered cheap.   And a monger is supposed to give a fuck about a prostitute and other prostitutes she knows thinks about you,  just because you didnt allow her friends to treat you like a Presidente Oasis in the desert.   

Why the fuck should a monger care what a bunch of Bum Bitches thinks about him because he didnt pay for some chicks drinks that he aint even fucking?   Aint muggs smart enough to realize,  a chick inviting her friends to drink off of you is a sign that they think of you as a sucker?   They are not thinking that you are a cool dude who is not cheap.  You are sucker in their eyes , most of the time.   

Every one of them muggs got fucking money on them somewhere.   They dont need some dummy buying drinks.   They do it, because they get to keep their money,  so they can spend it on themselves.  And their fake approval is just them giving the sucker a nice vibe to encouraging him to keep doing it.  And more.  Hoes got to eat too!

Back to the responsibility part :    Exactly when is it a prostitutes responsibility from a business POV to set or create the vibe,  so that a monger continues to be attracted, interested, and ready to fuck the chick from the time they leave the venue,  on the way to his spot,  inside of his spot, and then wherever the deed is to be done?    My point is,  just as much as dudes place all of this responsibility on some monger ,  to get some hoe wet, and interested in doing her fucking job.

A hoe has her own responsibility or issues to address.   If a dude needs to be fit and groomed, and smelling nice.   Then put that same onus on them hoes.  Mongers may need just as much incentive and stimulus to get it up,  and stay up as a hoe needs to get wet.   Oh does this arousal shit only work one way?   If a dude was hollering leche mami to a chick and a chick turned ice cold,  most female worshippers would quickly blame the guy for killing the vibe.    But when it comes to the shit women do that may turn dudes off,  they are conveniently mute, and have nothing to say.   They still blame everything on the guy for not making it so the chick would be into the guy and do the job she was hired to do.   A bunch of bullshit.

« Last Edit: November 06, 2020, 08:38:09 AM by murano2010 »
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Re: DOES A PROSTITUTE HAVE ANY RESPONSIBILITY IN THE GAME?
« Reply #1 on: November 06, 2020, 07:57:55 AM »
Broke it down in two parts for the reading challenged :   Continued............


If a chick takes off her clothes and reveals a bunch of flaws or she is doing shit that turns a dude off,  give credit where credit is due when dudes report being turned off by bum bitches.   Dont say some stupid shit that the dude didnt vet the chick 1st.   How the fuck you going to vet stretch marks,  a stinky pussy,  saggy titties, a thief, a chick glued to her phone in your place ( but she wasnt doing it where you saw her )?     How are you going to vet things that only manifest itself when it is revealed? 

How do you measure a shallow unable to take dick pussy?   How do you vet a chick that agrees to BBBJ and flips the script later on.   Oh I see.   The guy didnt vet her enough.   He didnt get her aroused enough.   He wasnt clean or groomed enough.Even if said dude was pristine.  Female worshipping dudes will still blame the dude for what the chick failed to do.

But when a dude is turned off by a chick.  Something she did, something she failed to do, something foul or unsightly that was revealed.  Whack skills, flipped personality into a dud,  none of that draws an inkling of criticism towards many of these females from guys that always blame a man for a womans shortcomings.     

And then worse,  how some guys discount the experiences and reports of other men.  But will use their commentary to boost themselves up as if they have some special gift that no other man has.  It's delusional, and it's lies.   What is really going on, is a bunch of shit that no one on here can verify for accuracy and truth.   So they can say anything.   But to an experienced or aware individual,  whats really going on,  is that some dudes have created a fantasy of what the women really think of them,  to match with the way they selectively operate.  In other words you never get the actual factual.  You get a contrived modified version full of holes and inconsistencies.   

Example :   If a guy says he stopped to talk to a chick,  invites her to sit down, and buys her a drink.   Then she invites some friends to come, and they conveniently get thirsty sitting there.   He ( Mr Got it going on ) will buy her friends some drinks too.   After all,  it's only a few bucks.   Now in his mind,  the chicks are looking at him as a nice dude, that respects women.   And according to him,  he probably is pre wetting the pussy of the chick he is contemplating on fucking ( although he is not sure ).

The key is in his mind he is building a positive rapport with the chick and her friends of being a nice guy who is not cheap.   
Now lets point out the reality.   While Mr Nice Guy uncheapo is feeling like this.  The female hustlers have their own take of this liquid hydration magnet.    Since this aint the US,  DR chicks dont necessarily look at gestures of kindness the same as in the states.   So a dude buying a chick a drink, and her friends ( just because it's only a few bucks ) is not a good move. 

1st off them muggs dont really appreciate the gesture.   As soon as it's provided them muggs have no positive feelings towards a dude doing that.  Because it was unearned.  Local men for the most part keep their money in their pockets where it belongs.   They typically dont waste their money on buying prostitutes ( working girls , hoes ) food and drink just because they sat their asses down.   

Especially because the Dominican male knows most of those chicks got their own money to buy themselves a drink.    So why the fuck should any dude do that,  just for the satisfaction of supposedly not looking cheap in the eyes of prostitutes?   Or to avoid them talking about you.   Dont you know,  chicks talking about how cheap you are because you didnt allow yourself to be used,   is a positive, not a negative?    If chicks thinks of you as cheap because you aint spending your money according to their expectations ( which is almost always in their interests, not the guys ) ,  consider yourselves having been complimented.   
 
« Last Edit: November 06, 2020, 08:11:46 AM by murano2010 »
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Re: DOES A PROSTITUTE HAVE ANY RESPONSIBILITY IN THE GAME?
« Reply #2 on: November 06, 2020, 08:29:40 AM »
I also read in the BUM Bitches thread a comment claiming if one guy reported having a bad experience with a chick and 4 others said that they had a great experience,  that the one guy with the bad experience is suspect.   

Now check this out.  Were on a message board, right?    What this guy is talking about is select individuals on THIS website.   What about the 500 other dudes that fucked the same chick?    And the % of those that had their own bad experience with the chick?   Guys who may not be reporting their experience with the chick on a website like this?   Point being, how the hell can you conclude that one dudes report is suspect, if you are only judging by a few reports on a website?   

And this is where this female worshipping is so engrained in some mens mind, they just cant see it.   They will happily and with a quickness throw another man under the bus if it means having to subtly defend or make allowances for females and their shortcomings.   
Where you stand on the issue depends on where you sit.  The words enough, some, many , to whom it applies to, does not mean ALL of any people, places or things.

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Re: DOES A PROSTITUTE HAVE ANY RESPONSIBILITY IN THE GAME?
« Reply #3 on: November 06, 2020, 08:54:20 AM »
The feminazis..oops feminists...have taken over everywhere. Even in mongering..... 


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Re: DOES A PROSTITUTE HAVE ANY RESPONSIBILITY IN THE GAME?
« Reply #4 on: November 06, 2020, 09:04:33 AM »
In my opinion, the chica, as the seller bares the responsibility of maintaining the product in a reasonable condition relative to the pricing and functional abilities. The buyer should realize, after repeated patronage in the store, their reputation is logged and monitored by both sellers and employees onsite. I noticed when I told a random chica no, she countered with my tastes as a reason I should say yes.  How would she know my tastes? Everybody is watching and hearing about folks in the store.  Just like word gets around the flea market. They know and they just want your money for themselves. Remember, she wants your money or she isn't in the game. She has the responsibility to perform and at the price agreed upon. So provide your price first. If she don't like it...Move on. There plenty of others that look just like her and they will accept your price.
« Last Edit: November 06, 2020, 10:17:56 AM by PapiViejo55-2 »
...I'm usually wrong...but that sh!t was great!

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Re: DOES A PROSTITUTE HAVE ANY RESPONSIBILITY IN THE GAME?
« Reply #5 on: November 06, 2020, 09:36:57 AM »
The attempt to vet or build rapport is an attempt at minimizing the possibility of a bad experience.  If a guys finds an approach that he feels effectively mitigate the occurrence of a bad experience or inspires above and beyond performance then he is going to keep doing it. 

Good, bad or indifferent but for a lot these chicks the money only gets you access.  They don't feel an obligation to give a good performance.  A lot them don't even know what a good performance is, their previous sexual experience is either with some young dude who doesn't know what he is doing or with some older dude that doesn't give a shit.  So the whole idea that by paying her money you are going to get a wild porn star experience is a bit misguided.  So over the years dudes that found ways that they feel work in improving the performances they get.  Whether real or imagined, it they had a good time then so be it.

As for smelly pussy, stretch marks and saggy titties,  I blame lack of quality control among Sosua mongers. Shit like that doesn't really occur that often in other locations.  The willingness of dudes to fuck those chicks have increased their numbers over the years.  In other places those sort of chicks are relegated to cheap local spot catering to poor local dudes.  In Sosua, they up in da club and da villas popping bottles with  the ballers.  That's why some dudes only go BB or dudes use do the expensive takeout from Passions because there was some quality control.

As for not being able to take the dick thing, that's on them.  Porn chicks suck it up and they should too. Or find a new a line of work.  Judging from posts on here I  think it is a new hustle for the rip and run chicks.  Get out fast while appealing to the dude's ego.  But you are right, can't vet that foolishness.

I buy drinks not because I am worried about seeming cheap or want them to think I am nice.  I like to party and while I am not dropping $3000 at Ahnvee,  beach, booze and broads is why I am there.  I don't fall in love with them and I don't keep in touch with them and definitely don't send them money but if I meet one I like and am plan to go back with her I am going to party with her and don't mind footing the bill.  She is my party favor. Most don't really drink that much.

I don't "worship" them but hoping for a reality that doesn't exist is pointless.  It would be great if all the chicks had a certain level of professionalism but we know that ain't going happen. 



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Re: DOES A PROSTITUTE HAVE ANY RESPONSIBILITY IN THE GAME?
« Reply #6 on: November 06, 2020, 09:38:02 AM »
.   

Now check this out.  Were on a message board, right?    What this guy is talking about is select individuals on THIS website.   What about the 500 other dudes that fucked the same chick?    And the % of those that had their own bad experience with the chick?   Guys who may not be reporting their experience with the chick on a website like this?   Point being, how the hell can you conclude that one dudes report is suspect, if you are only judging by a few reports on a website?   



This part right here. How many mongers look to this board for AFFIRMATION, as opposed to those who either view this board as a place for tips on where to stay or just entertainment? Then there are the mongers who neither read nor care about the monger drama.

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« Reply #7 on: November 06, 2020, 09:48:26 AM »
I also read in the BUM Bitches thread a comment claiming if one guy reported having a bad experience with a chick and 4 others said that they had a great experience,  that the one guy with the bad experience is suspect.   

Now check this out.  Were on a message board, right?    What this guy is talking about is select individuals on THIS website.   What about the 500 other dudes that fucked the same chick?    And the % of those that had their own bad experience with the chick?   Guys who may not be reporting their experience with the chick on a website like this?   Point being, how the hell can you conclude that one dudes report is suspect, if you are only judging by a few reports on a website?   

And this is where this female worshipping is so engrained in some mens mind, they just cant see it.   They will happily and with a quickness throw another man under the bus if it means having to subtly defend or make allowances for females and their shortcomings.

Or the dude could just be fucked up.  There was a monger in Rio back in the days that a lot mongers liked, myself included that turned out he got a kick out of beating up the girls.  Who knows what the sexual proclivities of the monger reporting the bum bitch is into that the chick refused to do.  Is these chick's mind you are only paying for access not the total fulfillment of all your sexual desires.  If 10 dudes who just want a suck and fuck enjoyed her services and 1 dude wanted to piss on her.  We just automatically assume she is a bum bitch because she refused.  Taking the side of a dude you don't know because he is man make as much sense as taking the side of a chica you haven't been with.

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Re: DOES A PROSTITUTE HAVE ANY RESPONSIBILITY IN THE GAME?
« Reply #8 on: November 06, 2020, 10:05:04 AM »
Murano,

Your position and outlook on chicas in the game borders on misogyny and a form of individualized hoe-based totalitarianism that I find disturbing. If you treat chicas as fuck and suck machines that require no priming whatsoever, and not as women with human tastes, feelings, and emotions, you’re always going to have a substandard experience.

90% of my chica experiences have been GFE, or a combination of GFE/PSE. That’s not something you can necessarily pay for, that’s something you cultivate with your presentation and the right vibe, and presentation and vibe has always been a two-way street.

From what I’ve seen and experienced, most chicas are putting in the work to look good, smell good, stay fit, and behave politely.

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« Reply #9 on: November 06, 2020, 10:25:21 AM »
I think it’s due to the freelancer market opposed to a brothel, you’re going to have to deal with the good and the bad. Like there’s no repercussions except that you avoid the girls. I don’t buy food at restaurants and I buy a bottle at the store and just carry it with me, so I may pour a shoot but hell no to buying a drink. Maybe a beer from my hotel’s bar once we in the room, that’s prior to smoking or watching tv. I guess I vet different because I’m checking to see how impatient the girl is to gauge her temperament and vibe, worse case I spend no money and send you back home on a moto(jajaja to a taxi, even if raining. She can wait at the bar or just relax in the room)

Still Murano, it’s because some guys just have different outlooks. Not everyone has more than 3 days to relax, so they aren’t trying to negotiate or have a fear of missing out on a girl and having to try to hunt her down. For every obese no Spanish speaking monger who is traveling in a group, there’s guys who don’t take the rushing themselves approach. I can knock out 3 girls a day easy, but how one goes about doing it is different. Some want to post up in a group in a spot all day, while others may spend hours from 8am to 12pm hunting and wondering around looking for different options. Obviously the sitting parties on PC will be likely to spend more, but it’s how they go about doing things. I agree it’s not game, but it’s what they are comfortable with. I drop weight when mongering because I’m a walker and negotiator but from Asia, South America to the Caribbean there are always guys who sit around and like to buy drinks. They’re comfortable in the setting.

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« Reply #10 on: November 06, 2020, 10:26:45 AM »
Lazy and Poon .... I couldn’t have worded it any better. Dudes who tend to have the “ they are all hookers” attitude tend to be the same guys who have bad experiences, don’t look for quality, and lack confidence and patience to be able to take the time to see if there’s any chemistry! Hooker or no hooker.... I don’t want a chica who has an attitude of  “let’s get this over”. Yes if I’m paying .... bitch better make me feel like a king not a client. That’s the difference between a quality chica and most rats.

As for the comment of “we are all fucking the same ho’s”.... that’s not true! Yes there’s a heavy rotation of pussy dudes are recycling but you have dudes like myself that import. My last trip I imported a 21year old engineering student who works for Diaggio promoting  several liquors. First time to Sosua. I was there in June  and I knew Covid19 had Sosua looking like a ghost town. So it was prime time to bring a chica that normally wouldn’t step foot there.  I spent money on chica but it wasn’t requested for sex.  Transportation and food... etc. to make my point we ain’t  all fucking poolside or beach rats. To be honest I’m turned off by seeing a chica out on the strip all weekend turning tricks with different dudes.... I never been one to fuck after someone else. This is why I’m always looking for the best looking or high maintenance chica. Some dudes just have standards and qualifications when it comes to females, hookers, etc....

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« Reply #11 on: November 06, 2020, 11:08:58 AM »
THANK YOU!!!!!!
I said the same shit on a thread where some dude was talking about you guys need to get fit and dress like a superstar to get chicas LOL. Then he got mad at me when I told him none of that shit matters fam she a hoe.  At the end of the day some cats can't separate fantasy from reality. They really think every woman in sosua wants them because they are the best thing since sliced bread. At the end of the day pesos talk bullshit walks. It's stupid as hell to me to go all out to impress a chick you paying to smash. I'm not saying be a scumbag but all that extra shit alot of y'all be doing is extremely goofy and unnecessary

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« Reply #12 on: November 06, 2020, 11:33:18 AM »
Murano,

Your position and outlook on chicas in the game borders on misogyny and a form of individualized hoe-based totalitarianism that I find disturbing. If you treat chicas as fuck and suck machines that require no priming whatsoever, and not as women with human tastes, feelings, and emotions, you’re always going to have a substandard experience.

90% of my chica experiences have been GFE, or a combination of GFE/PSE. That’s not something you can necessarily pay for, that’s something you cultivate with your presentation and the right vibe, and presentation and vibe has always been a two-way street.

From what I’ve seen and experienced, most chicas are putting in the work to look good, smell good, stay fit, and behave politely.

I agree with this statement 100% but good luck changing the thinking of guys who think the other way.  You are just wasting your time.  Everyone tries to prove their point like its the only correct way but at the end of the day its only their opinion.

I have been mongering long enough that I stopped giving a fuck what another dude thinks a long time ago.  Its my mind, eyes, dick and money.  I do what makes me happy and if some other dude has an issue with it he can suck a bag of dicks for all i care cuz im still gonna do me.
« Last Edit: November 06, 2020, 11:39:33 AM by RainmkrNY »

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« Reply #13 on: November 06, 2020, 11:34:50 AM »
Cats want women to satisfy them yet they have no idea how to satisfy a woman. As many have said here your pesos only buy you access. You need to take it from there. Rarely are you simply given PSE. You got to earn it.

You know a guy has problems with his self esteem around women or doesn’t understand women at all when he says one of two things.

1. “We’re all fucking the same women”. We aren’t. Even if you don’t import that dime might be fucking 4 guys a week or the semi pro 4 guys a month. Trust me we’re all not fucking the same women.

2. “All you need is pesos”. This is simply stupidity. Yes she’s out to get paid, but there’s no guarantee she wants your money.

Understand that a few of us wouldn’t even give most of the rats many are passing around the benefit of an hola.

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« Reply #14 on: November 06, 2020, 11:43:00 AM »
Cats want women to satisfy them yet they have no idea how to satisfy a woman. As many have said here your pesos only buy you access. You need to take it from there. Rarely are you simply given PSE. You got to earn it.

You know a guy has problems with his self esteem around women or doesn’t understand women at all when he says one of two things.

1. “We’re all fucking the same women”. We aren’t. Even if you don’t import that dime might be fucking 4 guys a week or the semi pro 4 guys a month. Trust me we’re all not fucking the same women.

2. “All you need is pesos”. This is simply stupidity. Yes she’s out to get paid, but there’s no guarantee she wants your money.

Understand that a few of us wouldn’t even give most of the rats many are passing around the benefit of an hola.

THIS

Im sure some of my old hoes wouldn’t take half of y’all’s monies 🤷🏾‍♂️

Yes they do turn down pesos

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