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Re: DOES A PROSTITUTE HAVE ANY RESPONSIBILITY IN THE GAME?
« Reply #150 on: November 19, 2020, 09:51:10 AM »
This all makes me wonder if "game" is applicable in the DR.  I have female friends there, acquaintances(neighbors), and relatives thereof...honestly, I've gone around town with some of them and they all seem to be easily available...As long as you realize that indirectly, your wallet is part of the relationship. So in the DR what effect does your "game" have if your shittin golden eggs?


HER:  I met this guy that shits golden eggs...I think I like him!

There are plenty of chicks in the DR that you can get by being the relatively rich gringo.  That's the appeal. But there are plenty you can't.  Being a very classist society, if you don't present a certain way as far how you dress and carry yourself, some will not engage you for fear of the gringo stigma. In certain circles, being with a gringo carries a stigma. Whether fair or not but there is the "here on business" gringo look and "here to fuck hookers" gringo look.  And they make judgements accordingly. 

Can you hang out in Piantini and pull a chick who makes enough money to drive a car as nice as yours?  Are you able to hook up with a woman who vacations outside of the country and travels to Miami just to shop?  Can you chat up a group of corporate women at a club celebrating one their birthdays or just having a girls night out. 

Given the amount of poor chicks on the island it may seem to some that every chick is in play but there are different levels.  As for  game, can you pull a chick in the DR when she has no use for your money and has no incentive to patiently deal with your lack of Spanish?  And trust, they are a lot of them out there

I think that no matter how much "game" one has, it will only function for a majority of the targeted group [80%] leaving a minority unaffected by said "game." And when you have the funds to travel you can dress in any manner befitting your goals and habitats enjoyed.  I think visiting a spanish speaking country should entice one to learn the language eventhough some circles include bilingual speakers that are willing and enjoy the opportunity to speak english for extended periods in front of non-english speaking locals. Despite the levels and challenges of "game" visitors will have more opportunities for sharing with 80% of the population than the 20% which in reality will require more time to entertain. If the goal is to enjoy the company of more than one woman, then time is not on your side...but the number of women to be enjoyed is very much on your side.  If your goal is to seek one woman, then spending your time and game to enjoy her company can be aided by the use of those golden eggs you keep shittin every night.
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Re: DOES A PROSTITUTE HAVE ANY RESPONSIBILITY IN THE GAME?
« Reply #151 on: November 19, 2020, 10:36:45 AM »
This all makes me wonder if "game" is applicable in the DR.  I have female friends there, acquaintances(neighbors), and relatives thereof...honestly, I've gone around town with some of them and they all seem to be easily available...As long as you realize that indirectly, your wallet is part of the relationship. So in the DR what effect does your "game" have if your shittin golden eggs?


HER:  I met this guy that shits golden eggs...I think I like him!

There are plenty of chicks in the DR that you can get by being the relatively rich gringo.  That's the appeal. But there are plenty you can't.  Being a very classist society, if you don't present a certain way as far how you dress and carry yourself, some will not engage you for fear of the gringo stigma. In certain circles, being with a gringo carries a stigma. Whether fair or not but there is the "here on business" gringo look and "here to fuck hookers" gringo look.  And they make judgements accordingly. 

Can you hang out in Piantini and pull a chick who makes enough money to drive a car as nice as yours?  Are you able to hook up with a woman who vacations outside of the country and travels to Miami just to shop?  Can you chat up a group of corporate women at a club celebrating one their birthdays or just having a girls night out. 

Given the amount of poor chicks on the island it may seem to some that every chick is in play but there are different levels.  As for  game, can you pull a chick in the DR when she has no use for your money and has no incentive to patiently deal with your lack of Spanish?  And trust, they are a lot of them out there

I think that no matter how much "game" one has, it will only function for a majority of the targeted group [80%] leaving a minority unaffected by said "game." And when you have the funds to travel you can dress in any manner befitting your goals and habitats enjoyed.  I think visiting a spanish speaking country should entice one to learn the language eventhough some circles include bilingual speakers that are willing and enjoy the opportunity to speak english for extended periods in front of non-english speaking locals. Despite the levels and challenges of "game" visitors will have more opportunities for sharing with 80% of the population than the 20% which in reality will require more time to entertain. If the goal is to enjoy the company of more than one woman, then time is not on your side...but the number of women to be enjoyed is very much on your side.  If your goal is to seek one woman, then spending your time and game to enjoy her company can be aided by the use of those golden eggs you keep shittin every night.

Look, you are absolutely correct.  However, I don't understand the need to discount the fact that there are some guys better at getting women to fuck them than others.  Or the fact that women can be attracted to a man beyond his finances.  The mental gymnastics performed on this site to deny something that most dudes have seen is insane.  My boy owns a garage, spends most of his days changing oil.  No matter what country, including the DR, he gets pussy without the exchange of money.  We went to Folly Beach in South Carolina and one of chicks in the group is a member of the Afghan royal family that got ran out of Afghanistan by the Mujahedeen.  Chick was gorgeous and a professed virgin and she straight up said she would fuck him if he so desired.

Game is a thing.  I do ok but I have hung out with dudes that can effortlessly pull bad chicks.  It ain't a looks thing or an age thing. It is just game. I lived with a Dutch chick that was a model and her boyfriend was a 40 year old dude with a belly that was smashing a trophy wife before her. My boy is just me but fat and his girl is a stunner.  I know it gives dudes comfort to believe that the only thing women want from a man is money but it just isn't true. I not trying belittle anyone but yeah, you can chat up pussy.

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Re: DOES A PROSTITUTE HAVE ANY RESPONSIBILITY IN THE GAME?
« Reply #152 on: November 20, 2020, 12:40:46 PM »
I agree. Chatting up pussy is great if that's specifically what you want...and I'll even say, it sure is nice to be a golden goose that a majority of chicas want to take you home...but guess what the family expects for dinner. Eggs!
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Re: DOES A PROSTITUTE HAVE ANY RESPONSIBILITY IN THE GAME?
« Reply #153 on: November 21, 2020, 05:53:57 AM »

Look, you are absolutely correct.  However, I don't understand the need to discount the fact that there are some guys better at getting women to fuck them than others.  Or the fact that women can be attracted to a man beyond his finances.  The mental gymnastics performed on this site to deny something that most dudes have seen is insane.  My boy owns a garage, spends most of his days changing oil.  No matter what country, including the DR, he gets pussy without the exchange of money.  We went to Folly Beach in South Carolina and one of chicks in the group is a member of the Afghan royal family that got ran out of Afghanistan by the Mujahedeen.  Chick was gorgeous and a professed virgin and she straight up said she would fuck him if he so desired.

Game is a thing.  I do ok but I have hung out with dudes that can effortlessly pull bad chicks.  It ain't a looks thing or an age thing. It is just game. I lived with a Dutch chick that was a model and her boyfriend was a 40 year old dude with a belly that was smashing a trophy wife before her. My boy is just me but fat and his girl is a stunner.  I know it gives dudes comfort to believe that the only thing women want from a man is money but it just isn't true. I not trying belittle anyone but yeah, you can chat up pussy.
LM here's some thing I was thinking about during your exchange here.   Do all guys that have a history of effortlessly pulling some chicks,  whether it is on purpose or by accident,  are they ALWAYS successful getting them?   Not some of them in their life time.   I mean every chick that they pursue/want?   

I have a cousin similar to your friend.  Every where we went,  chicks fawned over him.   He was a nice looking dude.   Most of the time,  he was not trying to pull the chicks or use any game.   The chicks were initiating trying to hook up with him.   Which may be the case with a lot of women.   His game however was not successful with every pursuit.   

And this is what I think goes on in many cases.  Guys are looking at the success rate of guys pulling chicks and blaming it on game.    But what may really be happening, is that the chicks themselves have already decided that they wanted to hook up or fuck some dude they find attractive or appealing.   All the guy did was make himself available.   Right time, right place.  Which to anyone paying attention, looked like some special skills the guy possessed.   When all it may have been,  is extreme attraction from the women, being impressed by something abstract, and them being proactive and making their interest known.   

Having said that.  It may also be true that there were chicks that these men wanted but the women themselves,  were not interested,  no matter what game the guys put out there.   The point I'm making here is,  GAME when it's successful, seems to be nothing more than a target already established as a willing participant.   

And some targets are disinterested from the jump.   Game or lack thereof may not always be the driving force behind a chicks interest or disinterest.   Failures also have to be factored into the equation as well as the successes.   Like, why did the guy fail?   Was it due to lack of game, or something else?

How many chicks have been approached by guys using game ,  where the guy got no where?    Should we have an accounting for that too?   Were usually impressed hearing about the times where some dude pulled a chick supposedly using game,  but at the same time we seem to ignore all of the times that same dude failed to produce results with certain targets, using the same game.    If GAME is what gets the girl,  then why are some chicks not moved by a mans game?   

Maybe it's not game, but a chick having her own preferences, perceptions and attraction that may be in play?   And a man just happened to match certain bullet points pertaining to THAT particular chicks, preferences, perceptions and attraction.   

Another key point.   Getting a chick is one thing,  but how long is ones success sustainable?   My cousin for example, could sure pull some chicks.  But eventually all of those hook ups ran their course in a very short time.   And most of them chicks dont have the same spark for the dude as they had in the beginning.   But thats life,  that applies to enough of us.   



« Last Edit: November 21, 2020, 08:52:22 AM by murano2010 »
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Re: DOES A PROSTITUTE HAVE ANY RESPONSIBILITY IN THE GAME?
« Reply #154 on: November 21, 2020, 09:15:51 AM »
For any number of reasons a chick may go with some guy or be impressed by some guy.

The man may assume it's game,  the target may have a totally different reason on their end.

Like :

1. He reminds me of another dude I admire.
2. He looks like he would be a good customer, probably pays well.
3. I like this guys grooming over the other guy over there.  His eyes, his nose, his teeth, his butt. whatever a chick might focus on.
4. Other chicks want him.  They would be jealous of him being with me.
5. I would look good with him.  We would make a nice couple. 
6. He probably has a big dick.
7. He probably has a small dick, that wont hurt me.
8. He probably will suck my pussy good.
9. He drives a car,  so he might be rich enough to afford some WU payments.
10.  Fill in the blank.

The point I'm making here.   Is that some guys tend to have their own idea of what they did to impress some chick to wanting to hook up, or offer a discount,  or not want any money.   But what may really be happening for enough women,  is that the chick herself had her own focus of what impressed her independent of what a mans assumption is,  that his game is what got a womans interest/attention.     

And you can apply this to a p4p situation as well.   One guy thinking the reason the chick accepted his offer, while turning down others.   It may not necessarily be because the potential customers game,  but whatever the chick herself was impressed by or focused on.   

Like his p4p payment history may be the draw or her assuming he pays well ( over paying ).   Known to be naive ( easy mark ).   Likes to buy food and drinks for chicks and all of their friends.  ( who needs money for food/drink when you got some dude that thinks he's King Kong with the ladies?).   Has a nice place to crash, to shower, to fuck, to cook, to look like high value there.    He has other friends,  she hopes to hook her other amigas up with.   

Now of course, on the guys end,  he thinks that his social skills ( GAME ) is the driving force to his success or for why some chick is with him.  Or why she aint that concerned about getting paid, ect.    Failing to consider what a chick may be focused on.  Including something abstract or insignificant.   A long term or short term objective.   Whatever it is,  there are two sides to a cause and an effect between two parties.   Not just the guys side. 
« Last Edit: November 21, 2020, 09:53:02 AM by murano2010 »
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Re: DOES A PROSTITUTE HAVE ANY RESPONSIBILITY IN THE GAME?
« Reply #155 on: November 21, 2020, 09:30:16 AM »
Something else I thought of.

The concept that quality and value of a female being measured by looks primarily.   Well to a certain degree,  this game thing might be looked at from the female perspective of using GAME on men.

Is a woman using beauty props a form of game?   I think it's fair to say that.   But even when it comes to women with their version of game.  Not every man is impressed by or focused on the same things from women or their game.   Therefore a womans game is only effective as it relates to each mans preferences, perceptions and attraction.   

For instance :   A woman may get butt implants to attract as many guys as she can.   And she may walk a certain way, wear certain clothes to make her ass stand out.   A then surmise that it was her ass that was the primary attraction that got mens attention.   But each individual guy may be focused on something totally different which has more draw for them.   Her fat lips perhaps,  giving a guy the impression that she may be able to suck a dick dry.

Thats she is a good fuck. 

She is thinking her butt game was the draw,  whereas a guy could be focusing on other things.   Conversely,  guys may make assumptions about some chicks of why they wont mess with a particular chick.   And this is where a chicks assumed GAME may not work as they had thought.   Guy might think her ass is so fake,  that it is a turn off.    Might be turned off to her weave.   Might remind him of his ex wife/GF.   Who knows? 

If a guy doesnt bite,  her assumption and the simps in the vicinity, maybe to automatically be it's because the guy cant afford her.  Or he has low self esteem.   But that is a self serving reason.  Not necessarily his reason.     Maybe the guy saw the chick with so many guys, he's thinking that she must have high mileage?   Who knows?   The thing is,  the effectiveness of ones GAME vs what another person is focused on can be misconstrued by both parties
« Last Edit: November 21, 2020, 09:46:36 AM by murano2010 »
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Re: DOES A PROSTITUTE HAVE ANY RESPONSIBILITY IN THE GAME?
« Reply #156 on: November 21, 2020, 09:42:42 AM »
I don’t care who you are what shape your in how you look! Women are attracted to confidence and power!  Finally dudes have realized some dudes just got game! Some don’t ! We ain’t all the same! I’m one of those dudes! Not the best but dam good! Always will have a bad bitch! Been getting quality pussy since I was 16. I’ll be dam if I stop !

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Re: DOES A PROSTITUTE HAVE ANY RESPONSIBILITY IN THE GAME?
« Reply #157 on: November 21, 2020, 10:09:41 AM »
I don’t care who you are what shape your in how you look! Women are attracted to confidence and power!  Finally dudes have realized some dudes just got game! Some don’t ! We ain’t all the same! I’m one of those dudes! Not the best but dam good! Always will have a bad bitch! Been getting quality pussy since I was 16. I’ll be dam if I stop !
Confidence and Power is in the eye of the beholder.   A chick may have her own perception of each man as an individual.   And she can be turned off by him.     His idea of exuding confidence and power can be perceived by a woman, as a man who is ARROGANT and CONTROLLING ( or thinks he can buy anything or get anyone he wants ). 

How you operate personally is irrelevant and unnecessary in this topic.   
« Last Edit: November 21, 2020, 10:11:52 AM by murano2010 »
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Re: DOES A PROSTITUTE HAVE ANY RESPONSIBILITY IN THE GAME?
« Reply #158 on: November 21, 2020, 10:40:49 AM »
Confidence isn’t arrogance and power isn’t abuse!

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« Reply #159 on: November 21, 2020, 04:38:01 PM »
...but money trumps both.
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Re: DOES A PROSTITUTE HAVE ANY RESPONSIBILITY IN THE GAME?
« Reply #160 on: November 21, 2020, 05:11:00 PM »
Confidence isn’t arrogance and power isn’t abuse!

Facts!!
Some dudes here take it to the other side of the spectrum, and conflate terms!!

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Re: DOES A PROSTITUTE HAVE ANY RESPONSIBILITY IN THE GAME?
« Reply #161 on: November 21, 2020, 06:03:02 PM »
Confidence isn’t arrogance and power isn’t abuse!
I'm not talking about what is or isnt.    I'm talking about how one may be perceived differently than what they think they portray outwardly to others.    How you ( not you personally ) perceive yourself,  may not be how others see you ( not you personally ). 

 
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« Reply #162 on: November 21, 2020, 06:07:34 PM »
Confidence isn’t arrogance and power isn’t abuse!
I'm not talking about what is or isnt.    I'm talking about how one may be perceived differently than what they think they portray outwardly to others.    How you ( not you personally ) perceive yourself,  may not be how others see you ( not you personally ).

Perception is not reality! I can perceive her as a stank! Lol. Honestly I don’t judge until someone opens their mouth. Honestly I love when I’m perceived what I’m not so I can prove them wrong especially a woman!

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Re: DOES A PROSTITUTE HAVE ANY RESPONSIBILITY IN THE GAME?
« Reply #163 on: November 21, 2020, 06:20:19 PM »
Confidence isn’t arrogance and power isn’t abuse!
I'm not talking about what is or isnt.    I'm talking about how one may be perceived differently than what they think they portray outwardly to others.    How you ( not you personally ) perceive yourself,  may not be how others see you ( not you personally ).

Perception is not reality! I can perceive her as a stank! Lol. Honestly I don’t judge until someone opens their mouth. Honestly I love when I’m perceived what I’m not so I can prove them wrong especially a woman!
Nobody said perception IS reality.  I already know that.    But perception can be a persons assumed reality of someone else.     Follow what is being said.  How one may be perceived may be differently than what they think they portray outwardly to others.   
« Last Edit: November 23, 2020, 07:26:36 AM by murano2010 »
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Re: DOES A PROSTITUTE HAVE ANY RESPONSIBILITY IN THE GAME?
« Reply #164 on: November 23, 2020, 10:06:14 AM »
I would say that initially Perception is reality to the person perceiving it.  We are all per-disposed to seeing people a certain way depending on our past experiences.  That perception can change once you get to know the person. 

 


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