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Re: DOES A PROSTITUTE HAVE ANY RESPONSIBILITY IN THE GAME?
« Reply #165 on: November 23, 2020, 10:33:14 AM »
I would say that initially Perception is reality to the person perceiving it.  We are all per-disposed to seeing people a certain way depending on our past experiences.  That perception can change once you get to know the person.
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Re: DOES A PROSTITUTE HAVE ANY RESPONSIBILITY IN THE GAME?
« Reply #166 on: November 23, 2020, 10:44:02 AM »
And as it pertains to game, that I was referring to.   A mans perception of reality that his game is what attracted a woman,  may be totally different than the perception of the reality of the woman.  A man who accounts and acknowledges his failures when his game did not work ( along with his successes ),  may be in a better position to see why the reality of some one else's perception is the key.   Not what one chooses to believe, but what is actual FACT for each individual situation.         
Where you stand on the issue depends on where you sit.  The words enough, some, many , to whom it applies to, does not mean ALL of any people, places or things.

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Re: DOES A PROSTITUTE HAVE ANY RESPONSIBILITY IN THE GAME?
« Reply #167 on: November 23, 2020, 01:29:49 PM »
When I was a young, in my 20s, an older person said to me "perception is reality."  I forgot the exact details of the context of the conversation.  But the point that older person was attempting to make was it doesn't matter how you perceive yourself.  I matters how others perceive you, and their perception of you is reality regardless of whether, or not, their perception aligns with yours.

Look no further than business and/or the workplace for examples...

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Re: DOES A PROSTITUTE HAVE ANY RESPONSIBILITY IN THE GAME?
« Reply #168 on: November 23, 2020, 01:57:59 PM »
When I was a young, in my 20s, an older person said to me "perception is reality."  I forgot the exact details of the context of the conversation.  But the point that older person was attempting to make was it doesn't matter how you perceive yourself.  I matters how others perceive you, and their perception of you is reality regardless of whether, or not, their perception aligns with yours.

Look no further than business and/or the workplace for examples...
This is true. We, as people struggle with how we perceive ourselves, how we think people perceive us, and how people actually perceive us. We rotate between each of these facets each day, depending on the situation and circumstance.

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Re: DOES A PROSTITUTE HAVE ANY RESPONSIBILITY IN THE GAME?
« Reply #169 on: November 23, 2020, 02:18:21 PM »
How I see myself in Sosua




How dem chicas see me




How I really am



...I'm usually wrong...but that sh!t was great!

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Re: DOES A PROSTITUTE HAVE ANY RESPONSIBILITY IN THE GAME?
« Reply #170 on: November 23, 2020, 04:58:48 PM »
How I see myself in Sosua




How dem chicas see me




How I really am



LOL!!!
I would say: That is how ALL of us see ourselves in Sosua. LOL.

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Re: DOES A PROSTITUTE HAVE ANY RESPONSIBILITY IN THE GAME?
« Reply #171 on: November 23, 2020, 05:03:02 PM »
When I was a young, in my 20s, an older person said to me "perception is reality."  I forgot the exact details of the context of the conversation.  But the point that older person was attempting to make was it doesn't matter how you perceive yourself.  I matters how others perceive you, and their perception of you is reality regardless of whether, or not, their perception aligns with yours.

Look no further than business and/or the workplace for examples...

 Things not in our control are body, property, reputation, command, and, in one word, whatever are not our actions.   -Epictetus

In other words, don't worry how others perceive you, you can't control it. The only thing you can control is your mind and your actions.

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Re: DOES A PROSTITUTE HAVE ANY RESPONSIBILITY IN THE GAME?
« Reply #172 on: December 07, 2020, 06:45:22 AM »
I have to shed some light on something.  Some individuals are so adamant about a man needing to renegotiate the terms with a chick if the chick ends up staying over night.  Not the chick,  just the man.     The logic behind it,  is supposedly so that a dude wont end up with the police or boyfriends involved.   Makes sense right?

A guy goes through all the trouble to vet a chick before taking her back to his spot, and one of the reasons is because they dont trust the chick.   But you vetted the chick and let her come to your spot.   Next, a dude goes through the trouble of locking up his stuff.  Again,  because he doesnt trust the chick.     

With all of this distrust going on towards this chick,  what makes anyone think a dude is safe and can trust a chick from not flipping the script when it's time to get paid in the morning?   Whether a dude negotiates or not.  If a chick wants to she can go in a totally different direction if she chooses.

Like extorting the guy.  Or causing a scene and damaging property.   And the cherry on top,  get the police involved.   Re negotiating with a chick you dont even trust and acting like you accomplished something by doing so.   

However it just dawned on me.  The main concern isnt really about the police or their boyfriends getting involved.   Superficially yes,  but that is not the main concern.      The main concern IMO,  is really to protect females.   They are looking at this as a right or wrong issue.   

The man is wrong and the woman is right.  She is owed money if she stays longer, because she is a female.   It doesnt matter if she negotiates for more money or not.  They arent really concerned if the chick performed more services over night either.    Just that she was allowed to stay.   That automatically entitles her to more money.

The onus is only on the man to be responsible for making sure the womans payment is upgraded to reflect the extra time spent.  Her Not having performed services doesnt matter to them.  If he didnt get to smash that was his problem.  The chick is owed money, period.  Thats very interesting.    If you look beyond the surface,  that is exactly what is going on here.     Its NOT even about the police.    It's about paying the chick, and using the assumed threat of the police as if they really care about that.  The police involved?

That just means more money for the chick, they would love that outcome....Its not about the police,   it's about making sure a womans interests are protected.  Always.    To never disappoint a female/woman and make her go thru extremes to get paid what she is automatically and naturally owed because she is a female.   

And if you notice,  there was never any mention of a chick having a responsibility to re negotiate the terms for her own interests. No money,, no services, nothing.  Women are considered exempt from that responsibility.   These type of men obviously must believe that that is supposed to be managed only by the man, on behalf of a female.   

If a woman fails to do her part in renegotiating the terms, no problem.   It's a mans responsibility according female protectors to step up and protect a female from herself.    Female entitlement , female worship with a touch of self inflicted misandry in effect.    Its the blueprint for men ( Matrix indoctrinated men ) who are hopelessly tethered to protect women from themselves, and see men as disposable creatures not worthy of experiencing women being or taking responsibility for their own interests.

That duty has been reassigned to men by way of male programming.     This dynamic is precisely the cause of some of the disagreements and disrespect between men.   The common denominator is to protect the thing they worship if it is under attack, and they see anything resembling blaming a female or holding a female accountable as a threat to her livelyhood and his.
 Because the female is his lively hood.   Notice accountabilty is always designated as the mans job,  for himself and towards the female so a female doesnot have to be accountable/responsible.   
Where you stand on the issue depends on where you sit.  The words enough, some, many , to whom it applies to, does not mean ALL of any people, places or things.

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Re: DOES A PROSTITUTE HAVE ANY RESPONSIBILITY IN THE GAME?
« Reply #173 on: December 07, 2020, 06:52:47 AM »
How I see myself in Sosua




How dem chicas see me




How I really am



Best. Post. Ever.  lol

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Re: DOES A PROSTITUTE HAVE ANY RESPONSIBILITY IN THE GAME?
« Reply #174 on: December 07, 2020, 08:47:05 AM »
I have to shed some light on something.  Some individuals are so adamant about a man needing to renegotiate the terms with a chick if the chick ends up staying over night.  Not the chick,  just the man.     The logic behind it,  is supposedly so that a dude wont end up with the police or boyfriends involved.   Makes sense right?

A guy goes through all the trouble to vet a chick before taking her back to his spot, and one of the reasons is because they dont trust the chick.   But you vetted the chick and let her come to your spot.   Next, a dude goes through the trouble of locking up his stuff.  Again,  because he doesnt trust the chick.     

With all of this distrust going on towards this chick,  what makes anyone think a dude is safe and can trust a chick from not flipping the script when it's time to get paid in the morning?   Whether a dude negotiates or not.  If a chick wants to she can go in a totally different direction if she chooses.

Like extorting the guy.  Or causing a scene and damaging property.   And the cherry on top,  get the police involved.   Re negotiating with a chick you dont even trust and acting like you accomplished something by doing so.   

However it just dawned on me.  The main concern isnt really about the police or their boyfriends getting involved.   Superficially yes,  but that is not the main concern.      The main concern IMO,  is really to protect females.   They are looking at this as a right or wrong issue.   

The man is wrong and the woman is right.  She is owed money if she stays longer, because she is a female.   It doesnt matter if she negotiates for more money or not.  They arent really concerned if the chick performed more services over night either.    Just that she was allowed to stay.   That automatically entitles her to more money.

The onus is only on the man to be responsible for making sure the womans payment is upgraded to reflect the extra time spent.  Her Not having performed services doesnt matter to them.  If he didnt get to smash that was his problem.  The chick is owed money, period.  Thats very interesting.    If you look beyond the surface,  that is exactly what is going on here.     Its NOT even about the police.    It's about paying the chick, and using the assumed threat of the police as if they really care about that.  The police involved?

That just means more money for the chick, they would love that outcome....Its not about the police,   it's about making sure a womans interests are protected.  Always.    To never disappoint a female/woman and make her go thru extremes to get paid what she is automatically and naturally owed because she is a female.   

And if you notice,  there was never any mention of a chick having a responsibility to re negotiate the terms for her own interests. No money,, no services, nothing.  Women are considered exempt from that responsibility.   These type of men obviously must believe that that is supposed to be managed only by the man, on behalf of a female.   

If a woman fails to do her part in renegotiating the terms, no problem.   It's a mans responsibility according female protectors to step up and protect a female from herself.    Female entitlement , female worship with a touch of self inflicted misandry in effect.    Its the blueprint for men ( Matrix indoctrinated men ) who are hopelessly tethered to protect women from themselves, and see men as disposable creatures not worthy of experiencing women being or taking responsibility for their own interests.

That duty has been reassigned to men by way of male programming.     This dynamic is precisely the cause of some of the disagreements and disrespect between men.   The common denominator is to protect the thing they worship if it is under attack, and they see anything resembling blaming a female or holding a female accountable as a threat to her livelyhood and his.
 Because the female is his lively hood.   Notice accountabilty is always designated as the mans job,  for himself and towards the female so a female doesnot have to be accountable/responsible.

Facts. Many dudes lack the abundance mindset. Need to be yes men and accepted by women and walk on eggshells around them to cater to their feelings. I respect women, but I respect myself first and foremost. Standing up for youreslf shouldnt be shamed, but it is in our society, unfortunately.

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Re: DOES A PROSTITUTE HAVE ANY RESPONSIBILITY IN THE GAME?
« Reply #175 on: December 07, 2020, 10:05:03 AM »
And I'm taking responsibility for removing posts from individuals that troll.   When a troll broadcasts how he feels about constructive input that is put out there, and decides not to engage in intelligent discourse,  and says he wont engage with that person,   I will help him/them stick to their word.   

When ever someones handle starts with "Mal" and their input in threads is to troll.  Take that as a sign.   Get rid of it.  You cant salvage lost souls.
« Last Edit: December 07, 2020, 10:08:29 AM by murano2010 »
Where you stand on the issue depends on where you sit.  The words enough, some, many , to whom it applies to, does not mean ALL of any people, places or things.

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Re: DOES A PROSTITUTE HAVE ANY RESPONSIBILITY IN THE GAME?
« Reply #176 on: December 07, 2020, 10:11:57 AM »
I aint tolerating disrespectful name calling towards other men either.   You either respect other men who are members and have a POV or stay out of my threads.    What you do in some other thread is your business.  Here, men respect other men.    In case some of you dont know what the hell I am talking about.  I just deleted a couple of posts in THIS thread from individuals that need an OP to take some responsibility for disrespectful conduct and trolling in his thread.   
« Last Edit: December 07, 2020, 10:15:00 AM by murano2010 »
Where you stand on the issue depends on where you sit.  The words enough, some, many , to whom it applies to, does not mean ALL of any people, places or things.

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Re: DOES A PROSTITUTE HAVE ANY RESPONSIBILITY IN THE GAME?
« Reply #177 on: December 07, 2020, 10:16:19 AM »
Bottom line you want good service you pay for it! That’s in any service industry! The reason I get my drinks quicker then you every week in the club is because they know I’m tipping and your not!... shit ain’t rocket science... cheap behavior gets cheap actions! Only responsibilities a ho has is to get your money by doing less work as possible! That’s the game! Only motivation she has is money! Pay her more and she’ll fuck you better! Stop trying to justify the bullshit! Dudes act like they signed contracts with these bitches... she’s only obligated to do what she has to do to take your money!

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« Reply #178 on: December 07, 2020, 10:18:12 AM »
Post the truth! It’s not trolling it’s facts!

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Re: DOES A PROSTITUTE HAVE ANY RESPONSIBILITY IN THE GAME?
« Reply #179 on: December 07, 2020, 10:26:28 AM »
I can do this all day.  Mr Ghost carry on.   Narcissistic replies about how you operate vs people you dont know is allowable, and wont be deleted.   But dont cross the line with name calling.   Other than that,  I dont have a problem with YOUR input.
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